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Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

Now I've offered her a chance to show her that there's something better out there and she is hesitating to take it. Not just something better, but exactly what she wants.

I can see ur frustration in ur words and kno that this is a very difficult thing to accept. You feel as if she left u, so its her that needs to step up and try and gain u back. When you offered her a chance and she hesitated to take it..how can u blame her? Love is scarrrrry. To be able to take that step, ur gonna need to understand more and be less angry about it b/c all that is going to do is push her away even more, rather than make u seem like more of a safe haven. And gee, i know u both are young and to find a love like you say urs is...that is rare! Most people are still trying to be pimps and playas..rather than look 4ward to their future. Just remember the 1st thing that a person remembers is the one time when u weren't there for them..not all the times you were. So if you think its still worth ur time, then stay in her life. Even if it is at the least, a friend level.