Speaking as a very STRAIGHT man who goes to an all male school I see this issue on DL cats pop quite up to often. A close female friend of mine chills with a lot dudes in ATL that are gay and is pretty close to a couple. Those cats love to put other dudes business on blast and when would chill and walk around chilling, she would just point them out. After a while it got to be like every 3-4 dudes if not whole groups. Bugged me out because it was cats i would have never expected but it was confirmed that they were creepin on the "L". Made me think twice about who I chill with. Personally, I don't care what lifestyle you are living I just don't like shady folk who can live a certain lifestyle but front like its not really their thing while acting like they're the most homophobic person in the world when he's around his boys (the most homophobic dude i know came out my fall semester sophmore year... his girlfriend was the catalyst but he still had suspect qualities). Also I don't understand the whole you like to take/stick it in the booty but your not gay philosophy. Just doesn't make sense to me. I rather someone be hot or cold... none of that lukewarm mess...
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