[starsuga82]

Originally Posted by Astarr1

I know for me i dated my boyfriend from junior high school all the way to college before i fiqured out he wasn't the one. So now im taking my time having fun and just being me. If the fellas can't get with that then they don't need to be with me. There's just to much going on at school to try and focus one person cause you'll alwyas feel like your missing soemthing that's how i felt my first couple of months. I felt like i was missing out on everything so i opted to just being friends. If it was meant to be then it'll be. 8)

I agree I sometimes hear people comment on how after we leave our HBCUs atmospheres that there will be less likely of a chance to meet better rounded single black individuals. I had a guy say once that the women in the AU Center should stop being so stuck up because it was the last time they would be around such eligible black men. I think he was a little bitter, but as far as being around a massive group of hard working intelligent black students and maybe not getting the chance to be in an environment like that after graduation; I think he was right.

I'm not looking for love in college but if it come my way cool.