Male/Female Relationships

[heman7]

For Men and Women:
Relationships are one of the most key aspects of our lives.
I just want to ask you a general question. All comments male and female are hughly appreciated.
I am curious to know how Men feel women should treat them? What is the woman's role for you? What do you look for in the woman of your dreams.
Be real and honest. I appreciate.
For woman, I desire to know, what do you look for in a man? How do you feel about the black man? What are the things you look for, in the man of your dreams.
I ask that you also be real.
I see too many females that want the bling bling and not the real thing. I see many women that state they want respect, but you sell your assets for top $$$. You ask for a strong brotha, but then you can't handle one. I see too many women who have sexed all over town and bring 6 kids to the table and weigh 400lbs and dont keep themselves up, but state they want a good man and that all men are dogs. Respectfully ladies, I will let you in on a little secret, Men are going to get what you give them. Too many women want the man to bring$$$$ to the table, but then you are broke. Quit being a fake facade and bring what you ask to the table. Bring what you ask and you will get what you ask.
I remember my days at FAMU and they are like many in the world today. I remember my times at Black Beach weekend. Most men that play are because they were played first. there are too many women who fault but don't take the blame for themselves.
Look at t.v., movies, magazines, videos, the world etc. Look at little kim and all the rest. No one out a gun to your head to sell yourselves out. I know I speak the truth
There are many good men out there. I have met them. You bypass them for them for what many of you seek, thugs. I wont go no further then to say, hey you want the thug and when you get treated like a thuggette, you are mad at the world of men, when you have been used up. Time flies for all. All people age, then when you are used up, you blame the world of men and end up bitter. I have seen it, I have counseled in it.
Keep the legs closed and the hole wont be mass exposed!
This is true of many and not true for all. Knowledge is power. The only way to colse the rifts is to talk about it in a honest, nondefensive, intelligent way.
I only mean well and I am not trying to be offensive. I just tell it how it is out of love. Proverbs 27:17 and Proverbs 27:17 talks about a good friend in which I try to be.
The Bible states in Proverbs 31:10 of a good woman as rare as a rubie. The Bible never states that the good man is rare.
There are more women that play then men. Think about it, there are billions more women. For every dog, there has to be a doggette. Each time you say all men are dogs, you are actually implying more women. If women out number men 7:1., then how many women does this imply? I remember how the women new me and what I was doing and still came in droves, right at Palmetto 155-1.
Ladies I posted a Post on "How Men Should Treat Women". I am the by product of a fatherless home. I am a Libra thus I have to be fair and look at bith sides of the scale.
Takecare, "God" Bless!
Peace
Sincerely
William