Are there any real black men with RESPECT!

BABYJAZZ87 · #1 10-21-2004

Okay, so I am 17 years old. Ya a youngan, but I can't believe the way the young black men treat us young black women. It seems like the real black men I am lookin for are in outerspace or tookin by another woman of a different race. What's up with that? Are there any real black men left for us black women? Okay, yes I do understand that some black women have no respect for themselves and they do some messed up things but there are some SISTAZ out there that do have respect for themselves, their body and for our black men. So, if anyone got somethin to add on to this, holla back!

Kinkee · #2 10-21-2004

There are some out there. But you can't go out looking for them. Let them come to you. Then you will know that they do exist.

NeoSoulBrotha · #3 10-21-2004

Of course there are. The problem is that most of them are not looking, because men like that have no problem finding and keeping a woman. The ones that you're running into are constantly looking for someone. Guess why.

I know it's a cliche, but be patient and you will find yours. Holla!

In Rod We Trust · #4 10-21-2004

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Originally Posted by NeoSoulBrotha

Of course there are. The problem is that most of them are not looking, because men like that have no problem finding and keeping a woman. The ones that you're running into are constantly looking for someone. Guess why.

I know it's a cliche, but be patient and you will find yours. Holla!

cosigns...............

BABYJAZZ87 · #5 10-21-2004

Okay, maybe there are a few good men out there!

jadekiss · #6 10-21-2004

Not to downplay on your maturity, but girl you're young...most of the males that you are surrounded by...definetly not mature. Now I'm not saying that when you reach my age (21) that respectable, good men come in herds, but by that age then tend to have half-maybe 3/4ths the maturity that women have. AGIAN not saying that all young males or all males are just boneheads (cuz some women...better yet girls ain't hitting too high on the maturity scale either...) but its a proven fact that men mature slower than women...especially 17-19 year olds...they DEF haven't reached that special place. So I say like the rest...let the respectable come to you...

diamond_princess04 · #7 10-22-2004

well...@ 17 u really don't know 2 much of nothing! I have a male friend that is 2 years older than me and is has treated me with respect since day one, but i didn't go looking 4 him. just be patient, they will come 2 u.