What'z ya Kryptonite?

P o e t i q R e i g n · #1 11-16-2004

spin-off from tha "I Have a Problem" thread...

briefly describe the type of person physically and personality-wise who is your Kryptonite...

you might've already ran across this type of person many times....or maybe you have yet to...

but just knowing YOURSELF...you know that WHEN and/or IF you do...that's just it - it's a wrap...

now these aren't supposed to be restrictions...like when you go looking, this is what you look for to a "T"...it's just...pretty much, aside from the fact that no one is perfect, IF you COULD have your perfect person...perfect for you...that's ya Kryptonite...

and even if you've met people who possess a good majority of the qualities....& those r the ones u've gone the most ga-ga over...which leads u 2 know what u your complete Kryptonite is...

okay, for me...my Kryptonite is...

physically: taller than me (6'0 & up); nice full frame, be it tha athletic football frame or tha cushiony one u can drown in when u hug 'em ; light brite to dark (sucker 4 all complexionz); dreamy dark eyes that pull u in & make u feel like u're the only being in the entire UNIVERSE; ummmmmmmmmmm....ooo a defined jawline; long (course OR str8ened) hair either all out or in cornrows; annnnnnnnd....everything else is optional...

mentally, emotionally, etc.: book and street intelligence; really funny w/ a great sense of humor; sweet; selfless; confident; respectful and self-respecting; unique; open-minded; crazy and silly, yet serious when necessary; assertive, with a hint of aggressiveness; conversational; determined and goal-oriented; mysterious to a certain extent; honest; trustworthy; and just cool overall...

that's my Kryptonite ...let me find him - it'll be a wrap :arrow:

Princess LaRonda · #2 11-16-2004

Andre is the PROTOTYPE

Its_like_candie · #3 11-16-2004

^^^Good Luck Finding him!!!!

Physically:
:arrow: (I totally agree with Meya on this one) Has to be taller than me (6'0 and up)
:arrow: A nice build...cause im not too much into skinny guys...being as im skinny! AND TWO STICKS WILL DO NOTHING BUT CREATE A FIRE!!!!!
:arrow: Nice smile
:arrow: Ooooo and im a sucker for nice legs and big lips!!

Personalty wise:
:arrow: Sense of humor...cause im goofy and if he dont have some kind of dorkiness inside of him, i'd probably drive him nuts!
:arrow: Someone who is willing to put up wit my stuff
:arrow: Open-minded...and someone who speaks their mind
:arrow: Somewhat Blunt
:arrow: Knows what they want in life...or at least has a clue.
:arrow: Someone that DOESNT let me just RUN ALL OVER HIM!!!!

Thats all i can think of for right now!

atlprincess · #4 11-16-2004

Ok Physically:
:arrow: I like a tall guy. 5'10 or taller
:arrow: Good teeth. Nice smile.
:arrow: Nice stomach.
:arrow: Nice calves.
:arrow: Darn, just a nice body....I find myself to be attracted to the football player physique.

Now Mentally:
:arrow: Must have God in his life.
:arrow: He must be intelligent.
:arrow: Must make me laugh...since I love to laugh.
:arrow: It's important for him to know whose and who he is.
:arrow: Must be a good conversationalist.

**There's more, but I don't feel like continuing right now**
These things seem so simple...but why is it so hard for me to find this guy?

Kool 2k6 · #5 11-16-2004

The Physical

:arrow: About 5'0" --> 5'5"
:arrow: Stumpy build/ Ya'll know what im talkin about. The short, stumpy girl with a nice body.
:arrow: Cute face. Glasses are a plus
:arrow: Smooth caramel skin tone
:arrow: Cute legs & feet
:arrow: Almost always smells good
:arrow: Nice pair of soft breasts
:arrow: She doesn't have to be real bootylicious. I'm not greedy.
:arrow: Pretty pair of eyes. I like having something to stare into when I'm talking to her.

The Mental

:arrow: Loving & caring
:arrow: Mother-like traits
:arrow: Good with kids.
:arrow: Conversational
:arrow: Silly at the right times (and I do mean silly. I can get str8 foolish when I want to...and she at least has to be able to have a sense of humor)
:!: Lady in public...freak by bedroom
:arrow: Open minded..in the bedroom, and outside of the bedroom
:arrow: Willing to try new things
:!: Able to chill sometimes. Too many of todays black women are busy-bodies that can't stand still or sit down for 10 minutes, like if there is anything going on, she HAS to be involved. Thats a really big turnoff to me. I run from busy-bodies.
:arrow: Able to cook
:arrow: Understanding
:arrow: Has some sort of work ethic. I have one, and success doesn't come from schooling alone. What good is a college degree when you dont wanna get up to go to work in the morning? Remember: The busiest are always the happiest.
:!: Has morals when it comes to the relationship. Talking to your "friend" while we're supposed to be having private time is a fukking NO NO!
:arrow: Common sense. Education isn't required at all. Common sense is. I know a lot of formally educated people who dont know how to balance a checkbook or pump gas. smh. :roll:

If you haven't noticed, I pay more attention to the mental than the physical...but it still counts. I came pretty damned close to my "kryptonite" (and I mean REAL close...very recently). She knows who I'm talking about.

Blutifully Human · #6 11-16-2004

Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Kool™ Iz Back

If you haven't noticed, I pay more attention to the mental than the physical...but it still counts. I came pretty damned close to my "kryptonite" (and I mean REAL close...very recently). She knows who I'm talking about.

oooooo....who is she, who is she, who is she?!? Inquiring minds want to know!

Kool 2k6 · #7 11-16-2004

I'll never tell!!