Fellas answer me this? - Page 2

Carmelsun · #8 01-05-2007

I agree with Pretty boy blue, I think that virginity is sacred whether you are a male or a female. Parents, along with society has given men the impression that being a virgin makes them less of a man. And it's sad to think that it's this way. Far as regretting losing your virginity I have met plenty of girls who regret losing it the way they did because it wasn't special and they felt sad that they did not value their gift from God. As far as men with kids go you never know, guys say they don't have kids and after you're in the relationship here comes one of his baby mommas calling.

SuperFly · #9 01-05-2007

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Originally Posted by Carmelsun

As far as men with kids go you never know, guys say they don't have kids and after you're in the relationship here comes one of his baby mommas calling.

That means you weren't following the SIGNS...

**WiLLMoss** · #10 01-05-2007

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Originally Posted by P/Rettyboyblue

I think it is just as sacred, but many times alot of parents dont present it to their male children the same as they do for their female children.

I guess let me rephrase my point... Yea it is just as "sacred" being that we're all equal in the fact that we we all virgins at one time, but MENTALLY I don't think men in general (even if you give them a nice talk) will FEEL as though their virginity is something sacred. MOST guys are trying to lose that tag as soon as they have their first wet dream... Then on the female side, they just have more to lose and their feelings about the before and after is much more complicated than men (or boys for that matter)...

Lesson of the day, women, hold on to it! Guys, well try your best

Renegade11 · #11 01-12-2007

In today's lifestyle being a virgin is not common at all. A male should, to be real, cherish a lady who has not had sex. I think sex is something that needs to be shared between two special people. Now days folks are giving into sex and drugs too dang quick. Where are my Dr. Martin luther kings or Malcolm X's at? We no longer have either of those men. We got some thirstyv as$ males who jus like playing mind games on females. Fellas grow up and do something other than trying to get ya nutts wet. I know it sounds crazy coming from a male but hell if a Nicca don't say it than it prolly wont be said.

Its 2007 get on something bigger than a$$ and Titties... something like bread and butter...

P Harrell · #12 01-17-2007

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Originally Posted by Carmelsun

My friend was like some guy at her job liked me. She was like I told him you're a good girl and all this stuff, and he still wants to talk to you. So I'm like no, at first because I didn't want to talk to anybody really; but she gave him my email address so he wrote me a couple emails. And he was like is it true that you haven't been touched. And I was like yeah, He was like wow you're a dying breed. Which brings me to my question because I'm think that men that are virgins are extinct, and young men with out children are on their way to extinction too. So guys tell me if I'm wrong, or if I'm right? And for those of you who are not virgins, which I am sure there are many, do you ever wish you wouldn't have gave it up so soon?

To make it simple and plain...there is always the double standard. Women at an early age are taught that their virginity is sacred. Women are taught early that the ONE thing they have control over is their P*ssy. Men are this or that but when it comes down to it women have the upper hand because of the desire to get p*ssy. Now men, we are taught early to chase p*ssy. To obtain cars, clothes, whatever...sweet talk...to get p*ssy. So, the value of keeping our virginity is nothing...Women think about how long they gonna keep it, men think about how soon they can lose it!

R-Tistic · #13 01-17-2007

Yeah....I can't even lie...not only did I lose my virginity late in the game, but I only regretted not losin it earlier. I do think female virgins are nearly extinct, and of all the girls I know in college, I might only know about ten who I am sure are virgins. I do NOT go for the born again BS either.

And it's BS that so many "men have kids" because it's not like they are havin them with each other...it takes two to tango...so it's just as many women who have kids, u know?? In college, I would probably estimate that 4-6% of all the black men have kids...and it might be a lil lower or higher, but definitely nothing more than like 9-10%. It's just not THAAAAT common u know?

starsuga82 · #14 01-17-2007

I agree with Renegade11 comment. It's a cycle people fall into. I don't think someone's manhood or womanhood should be defined by whether or not they've had sex or not. And it's called self control. I know I seem like I'm bashing those who have had sex but people end up in "complicated situations" with mixed up emotions because they just had to prove themselves to some knuckle heads they call friends. And I know more then 10 females that are virgins, now men I don't know too many and it's sad.