Re: For Men and Women Alike!!!!!!!!!!!!
How can you expect someone to understand you "point blank" if you don't talk to them in such a way? For example, if you were to tell me "I'm feeling you." You'd get a blank stare. Why? Chances are, your hands aren't on me. If they are, and you feel the need to tell me "I'm feeling you", then you might have mental health issues. If they were on me and I didn't feel them, I need to go to a doctor. See? That's not point blank. Not only does "I'm feeling you" have numerous connotations that mean completely different things from what you intend it to, but its also assuming that something is still holding you back from saying, in no uncertain terms, "I (like/love/whatever the hell you want to put there) you a lot, and I feel that we should try to work on a better, closer, and loving relationship with each other. What do you think?" <<< THAT is point blank. With that said, don't take someone not wanting to be with you in the first place as "he doesn't understand... why don't men understand me?" In addition, if you're going to bring your feelings to his attention, it would, perhaps, be a better idea if you came into the situation assuming that he doesn't know what your standpoint is. If he tries to look at things from your standpoint, he could construe your position into something else. Instead, if you would clearly explain the situation so that it doesn't matter what "stand point" you're looking at it from, then you are more likely to come to an effective solution.
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