Good day people...let me first start off by saying this.
1. Not everyone knows what they want, so everything is relative.
Thats right people, there is no set formula for dealing with All Women, but there are steps you can take to increase your chance of success for any encounter you have with a Woman.
Lets give the Club tips first - just so that you can gain some quick utility in this talk Im going to have.
A. Your appearance is the first thing she sees, so dress and act Fresh.
- Clothes speak louder than anything else you could possibly say to anyone.
- Colors like Orange, Yellow and Green are No's unless you contrast the Orange with Black. Remember, youre trying to seem smooth and in control, not scare them off.
- Wear a watch, a ring if you have one, and keep a simple chain on. If youve got your name around your neck then you can expect the chickenhead connection to roll up and ask you what youre doing after the club scene is over, and that might be cool for some of you *rolls his eyes*. Up your standards people
- IF you decide to drink, make sure you drink something with style and class. If youre a small guy, get a tall glass of something (it might seem overcompensating, but if she asks about why you chose it you can always say "because this is the way I see myself. Strong and able to do many things.") Alize, Hpnotiq and SOMETIMES Hennessy are all No-No's because they are one dimensional sophomoric drinks that kids are into. Try finding your Courvoisier or go to
www.webtender.com and find your ideal drink that will spike up a good conversation.
B. Conversation is the one shot you have to speak to her later
- You dont know if she wants sex, so no matter what shes wearing dont bring up the topic Ever. If she brings it up, mossey around it. Make it seem like you dont care for it or that its something you hold high in esteem. She'll find respect in the fact that you can talk about more than your lame doggystyle.
- If you think you might want to hit, dont talk about any of the obvious subjects. Talk about beds, lighting, clothing. All of these things might make her indirectly think about what it might be like to sleep with you, but dont give her any indication that that is your intention. Inform yourself about the psychology of colors, movement and the three things I just mentioned.
- Two ways to bring up your name are:
1. Tell her as soon as you meet her. Make sure you ask at the same time so that you wont be calling her Guh' or making up a bunch of surnames the whole time through (And keep repeating her name in your head. If you forget that will make you lose madd points unless you can work in a line about you being forgetful because of her stark beauty)
2. Ask her at the end of the conversation - Make it seem like you were so interested that it didnt matter what name she was born by. It'll make her seem important to you, not just because she was wearing a backless dress and a thong.
- At the end of the conversation, if youve done it right, you should be able to say that you dont want it to end and ask her for her number. The smoother thing to do would be to give her your own number, but if you dont know how to play off a girl calling you then getting her number might be your stick. Dont say "So, can I get your number so later we can Meet up" because it makes it sound like youre going to talk just long enough so that she'll want sex. If she's gonna give it, itll be on her own accord (and much sweeter that way)
C. Actions speak Louder than Words, but not louder than Appearance.
- If you dance out there like a f*cking fool, expect to go home feeling like a f*cking fool. Cafe made an interesting point about just chilling around and laughing with your boys - make it seem like theres much to be had where you are, and if they (her and her girls if she didnt go stag) come over there they will be entertained to no end. Oh, make sure your boys arent complete assholes that might f*ck up the night for you. They need to read this too (and Wingman if necessary) [Vocab: Wingman - Self respecting male who provides interference for a friend so that he might be able to have a chance with the prize of a female group. Much honored and priveleged]
- Dont slouch or cross your arms. It makes you seem guarded and women LOVE an open minded person. Your body language speaks volumes where your mouth only knows the words youve remembered.
1. If she crosses her legs towards you, she is subconsciously interested in something you have to say (or is right or left handed...)
2. If she puts her hand on her chin while youre speaking and is looking in your eyes, she cant help but to listen (or is tired of holding her head up and sticking her chest out at you)
3. If she looks away more than 5 times during your conversation, you might wanna give it up. Shes losing interest or youre not keeping it. That goes for you too - make her the highest priority in your eyes.
4. If she asks alot of questions try to change the conversation to one in which you can show your intellectual prowess OR see where her mind is at. Try to write down some questions and remember them so that you have something thought provoking to make her think.
5. If she asks for a DRINK, dont Offer to buy her anything over 60 proof. The beer face isnt attractive, and she might feel embarassed or ashamed if you order her some damn Vodka. Get her something smooth (that *gasps* compliments her...."I got you that long island because of its simplicity and elegance. Kind of sneaks up on you, hehe") and if you can get a cherry in there, do it. Fruits are the sexual icons of conversation (especially cherries, strawberries and kiwis).
Imma stop here for now. Let it soak.
Man to Man (Tres speaks on what women find to be Attractive)
Glaaaasses... Gucci Glaaaaaaasses...
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