Are males expected to have more??

KärolinaPläyboy · #1 06-04-2004

4 some reason, it's not the same, with girls. Because males are EXPECTED to be established and have they own place & car far much younger. Basically, if you meet a girl at the club and tell her that you living at your moms place, you'll damn near get a drink dumped on you!! even if you only 18!! BUT....if a female is 25 living with her moms, males aren't expected to trip out?? I don't get that!

SuperFly · #2 06-04-2004

You lookin for a girl in the wrong place if you lookin in the club... :roll:

Slim GoodyN757 · #3 06-04-2004

ok karolina this is how i see it.

if you are grown and you live with your momma but you going to school then i can understand

If you are grown and you have a job but you have intentions of leaving the nest very soon, then i understand also

But if you are a grown azz man livin wit yo mama and you aint got no job , are not attending school, and you don't have any intentions of moving out on your own or at least with someone else then brotha you need to keep on steppin!!!!!!

dazzlin' · #4 06-04-2004

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Originally Posted by bonitachicaN757

ok karolina this is how i see it.

if you are grown and you live with your momma but you going to school then i can understand

If you are grown and you have a job but you have intentions of leaving the nest very soon, then i understand also

But if you are a grown azz man livin wit yo mama and you aint got no job , are not attending school, and you don't have any intentions of moving out on your own or at least with someone else then brotha you need to keep on steppin!!!!!!

cosignz to the tenth

KärolinaPläyboy · #5 06-04-2004

Soooo.....what about about females then. do yawl have a longer "grace period" for living with mom n pops, then we do? personally I hate a woman without her own car and definitely without her own claim to a crib. I'm at the point now, where if you are missing components, you become a liability to my wallet aNd that sh!t is played out!!

Jamila iz Back! · #6 06-05-2004

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Originally Posted by KärolinaPläyboy

4 some reason, it's not the same, with girls. Because males are EXPECTED to be established and have they own place & car far much younger. Basically, if you meet a girl at the club and tell her that you living at your moms place, you'll damn near get a drink dumped on you!! even if you only 18!! BUT....if a female is 25 living with her moms, males aren't expected to trip out?? I don't get that!

I disagree...I think most females are understanding of dudes who arent established if they are in college and trying to better themselves...I mean, we cant expect an 18 year old guy ( im sorry, i dont quite call an 18 year old A MAN, cause most 18 year old dudes got a lot more growing up to do ) who just graduated high school and going off to college..to have money, house and a car...thats just unrealistic. Now when you get 23, 24, 25...as a MAN we dont expect you to have a whole lot more, especially if you still in school...but I think at that age you should have a little more than what you started out with...At that age you should be in college and working trying to support yourself, but still getting assistance from ur parents every now and then.

My thing is moreso the effort he is putting out. I cant get mad at any guy or reject him if he in school and working...and he maybe got an apt off campus...but still saving up to get a car. Hey he is trying and thats all you can ask for. My hangup is dudes who aint about nothin, still livin off they mothers and they 25 years old with no education, and then gonna try to holla at a female trying to do something with herself. I dont think so....I feel like people who are working to better themselves in whateve way deserve each, a dude who aint doin sh*t with himself needs to be with a female who aint about sh*t either. :arrow:

Slim GoodyN757 · #7 06-05-2004

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Originally Posted by KärolinaPläyboy

Soooo.....what about about females then. do yawl have a longer "grace period" for living with mom n pops, then we do? personally I hate a woman without her own car and definitely without her own claim to a crib. I'm at the point now, where if you are missing components, you become a liability to my wallet aNd that sh!t is played out!!

I believe that the same rules that I stated earlier apply to women also because if the girl isn't doing anything with herself or trying to better herself why should a man waste his time with her because eventually she gonna start asking you for money and yes that sh!t is played out :x