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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
well fact is he lives for himself and what ever he's doing he's finding some type of happiness but if he cares about you the minute he see you smiling without him,he'll be back and he'll know he needs to change. what you need to do his let him know your serious because everytime you come back to a man it confirms his beliefs that he will always have you.
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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
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It's funny you said that because I had a longer response but shortened it to what I have above.
But what I was going to say was....Now he's ready to up his share to 50%-80% so that you'll stick around and make you believe that he's changed and willing to put forth more effort. The sad thing about it is that you'll only get 50-80% from him because he already has the mindframe of "I just need to do THIS and she'll stay with me!" You'll never get the 100% you deserve from him. You just have to ask yourself how much more are you willing to take. I can see that reciprocity is key with you and it should be.
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The funny thing about it is, when I do try and leave, he believes its another guy involved and when I say it isn't, he thinks I'm lying. I tell him I'm leaving and going about my business b/c I deserve better and he tells me that he deserves better. It just makes me even madder b/c I'm like, I'm doing so much for you and I don't ask for anything in return. NOTHING. I do all the taking out, paying the bills and other stuff.
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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
I told him he is going to have me so messed emotionally and mentally, that the next guy who wants to treat me right and love me the correct way, is going to be in for it deep b/c I don't trust males anymore or want to experience love anymore. It brings nothing but pain.
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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
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I told him he is going to have me so messed emotionally and mentally, that the next guy who wants to treat me right and love me the correct way, is going to be in for it deep b/c I don't trust males anymore or want to experience love anymore. It brings nothing but pain.
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Don’t let your past hurt your future. All guys deserve a clean start. Some men appreciate a good lady. Keep your head up! 
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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
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The funny thing about it is, when I do try and leave, he believes its another guy involved and when I say it isn't, he thinks I'm lying. I tell him I'm leaving and going about my business b/c I deserve better and he tells me that he deserves better. It just makes me even madder b/c I'm like, I'm doing so much for you and I don't ask for anything in return. NOTHING. I do all the taking out, paying the bills and other stuff.
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I can't be the only one to see the comedy in that line I placed in bold. That weak attempt of his to switch blame is so played that I can only laugh at it.
If you're leaving, he can believe and say what he wants. He's the one that has to deal with you being gone. You know the reason why you left him and that should be your only concern. In all actuality you've already left him, you're just there for show right now. He's stringing you along.
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Re: Question for the HBCU Fellas
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Don’t let your past hurt your future. All guys deserve a clean start. Some men appreciate a good lady. Keep your head up! |
I'll co-sign that for you my good man!
Your reservations with the next man will only put a strain on him. If he's truly a good man he'll recognize what you're going through and would be willing to stay with you and change your impressions about "all men". If and when that happens....Congratulations!  You have found your 100%!
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