To All tHe FeLLaS

[giniacuty_757]

THE PROBLEM IS IT TOO MANY BABY MOMMAS AND BABY FATHERS NOT ENOUGH HUSBANDS AND WIFES WE NEED STRONGER MARRIAGES SOME BROTHAZ NEED TO GET IT TOGETHER TAKE CARE OF REPSONSIBILITY YOU WASNT HOLDING BACK MAKING THAT BABY U NEED TO HELP TAKE CARE OF IT NOT JUST BY BUYING THE BABY A WHOLE BUNCH OF SHYT NIETHA I DONT HAVE NO KIDS BUT I APPLAUD ALL THE MOTHERS OUT THERE DOING THERE THING AND STILL GOING TO SCHOOL.

My Cousin Jasi she has a baby boy and her baby father is forever buying him crap and the baby spends more time with his mother than him thats crazy it takes two to raise a baby in my opinion though there are some mothers who hold it down on the single hand those women who are brave and the sperm donors cowards it sad to me. Men need to take their place and step up they game not all men the ones that dont do their job. being there physically, financialy, and socially in the babies lives. If more men could step up be fathers to their children al ot of our youth wouldnt be like they are in the negative aspects.

BUt we cant blame the guys for everything sometimes its those no good mothers out there who sleep with soom any men they dont know who the baby's father even is so its a matter of responsibility from both partners u made that bed now they got to lay in it.

[Damon]

I did a blog on this recently.

My sperm donor and I have not spoken since 2000. I have tried to establish a relationship with him but he never had the interest or the time. Oh well, he won't have a good relationship with his grand daughters either.

I, on the other hand went the opposite direction of my father. I helped with homework, went to parks played videogames and taught my daughters how to fight. (to protect themselves) It pains me that their mother and I had to divorce and my military obligations have me all over the world, but to them, I am always daddy and I will always protect, guide and take care of them (financially and otherwise). Even from a distance.

[Mrs. Obannon]

^^ I give u mad props.

[Damon]

Originally Posted by Mrs. Obannon

^^ I give u mad props.

Thanks,
I really shouldn't get props because operating as I do "should" be automatic for every parent.

[Renegade11]

I feel ya on that sista.. there are too many lil bad kids walking around with no respect for anyone. There are kids out there who needs a male role model in there life forreal. I grew up without my father but thank the Lord that he blessed me with a great mother. Fellas if yall slip up DO NOT run from yall problem. Be a man and take care of ur responsibilities...

Great Post

[A-Kiing]

damn yup yup that riight there got to me yeah thats why iim bout to be there for my kiids cuz ii grew up wiith out ma pops so ii just done even know iif iim fiinna be a good father because ii just aiint neva had a row-model

[ronaldlotts@sbcglobal.net]

Real talk. I have two kids a daughter and a son. I would put my life down any second for them. If anything would ever happen between their mother and myself, so be it. But I could never imagine not being in my seeds life.