To All tHe FeLLaS

[Sister Tamara]

PRAISE THE LORD!!!

I have read all of the comments and I agree with everybody. That's why I'm a firm believer of abstinance until marriage. This will solve a lot of the problems. Now keep in mind that marriage alone wont keep the father or mother obligated to their responsibilities, that's why I also promote Holiness. If a Holy man of God marries a Holy woman of God, than the love they have for God will be evident to each other and will be easily passed on to their children. This way you wont have to worry about children not getting all of their needs tooken care of. God loves for things to be done decently and in order, and the order of having children is "ABSTINANCE UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!

[smc112]

Originally Posted by G.O.M.A.B.

Guys always go around humpin anything that walks unprotected and they get mad when they have a baby or get an STD.
That is why I always tell my brother to be careful where he 'sticks his stick'. He is a male whore and it worries me what kind of diseases he could have. I dont even sit on the same toilet as him anymore. Its crazy...........

How about telling him he needs to live for Jesus and quit fornicating before marriage. That will save him from a lot of trouble.

[Sister Tamara]

PRAISE THE LORD!!!

I agree with you smc112. It's one thing to talk about what's wrong with a person, but it's another to help them solve their problem. When you have the answer you must share it. That's why I make it a point to let everybody know that JESUS is the answer to any problem. Keep in mind also, that it takes someone that truly has JESUS to tell others about him. Especially when it comes to family. If you faking and shaking and hitting and missing they aint going to want to hear nothing you talking about. Your family knows if you're for real even when nobody else does. It's like my Bishop said one day at Outreach, you can't expect to sell someone some skin cream and your skin messed up!!! How you gonna try and offer somebody something that you aint never tried??? (excuse the bad grammer...trying to make a point!!!)

[smc112]

Originally Posted by Sister Tamara

PRAISE THE LORD!!!

I agree with you smc112. It's one thing to talk about what's wrong with a person, but it's another to help them solve their problem. When you have the answer you must share it. That's why I make it a point to let everybody know that JESUS is the answer to any problem. Keep in mind also, that it takes someone that truly has JESUS to tell others about him. Especially when it comes to family. If you faking and shaking and hitting and missing they aint going to want to hear nothing you talking about. Your family knows if you're for real even when nobody else does. It's like my Bishop said one day at Outreach, you can't expect to sell someone some skin cream and your skin messed up!!! How you gonna try and offer somebody something that you aint never tried??? (excuse the bad grammer...trying to make a point!!!)

That is true because her brother isn't going to listen to a thing if she is out there doing worldly stuff. Actually, I just didn't have time to go and explain what I meant about Jesus. (I'm busy with school work,etc.) People know deep down the difference between right and wrong, so you really don't have to give them a long sermon. Just keep it short and sweet. People's life is their biggest sermon anyway.

[MiA_theGREAT]

how bout the opposite end of the spectrum.. women who are so desperate to have a man provide for them that they intentionally get pregnant. pokin holes in prophylactics and whatnot. i've heard about groupies who get their gynecologists to inject them with sperm out the used condom of NBA players and musicians. its crazy.. but they bear the same burden of responsibility as a whorish man. its too many ppl on earth already for all that foolishness!

[Royaljb]

Whew...I'm a youngin ya'll, so I haven't really gone too deep into the whole sex thing. Of course I have urges, and I can give myself up anytime I want, trust...but I'm not really in a rush to do that, know what I'm sayin. I mean, so many of my homeboys are doin sh** and that's their choice. But with me, I'm not in so much of a rush to lose my virginity. I honestly don't believe in abstinence until marriage, but hell, you never know...(but then again it is smart to test drive before you make the commitment so......yeah)

[i*heart*pie]

Originally Posted by MiA_theGREAT

how bout the opposite end of the spectrum.. women who are so desperate to have a man provide for them that they intentionally get pregnant. pokin holes in prophylactics and whatnot. i've heard about groupies who get their gynecologists to inject them with sperm out the used condom of NBA players and musicians. its crazy.. but they bear the same burden of responsibility as a whorish man. its too many ppl on earth already for all that foolishness!

Wow. Gynecologists DO that? I wonder how much these girls pay or what the hell they are doing to get a physician to do that kind of ish.

But for the most part, I agree with what most people have said, that the father figure is very important in a child's life. Not just for the boys, but also for the girls as well.