this is one topic i wish i couldnt relate to...but unfortunately i do. and i completely understand where ur coming from. growin up without a dad is the absolute worse. it was hard for me becasue i never had a chance to establish a healthy and positive relationship with a male early on in life. and because of this i shy away from establishing and committing to a male now. among other reasons i wish my dad was around for my brothers. i dont know exactly how his absence has affected all aspects of their lives but i do know they dont care for him too much. so fellas if you're not trying to be a daddy..use protection. and to the fellas that have kids and are doing right by them i truly applaud you for not taking the easy way out by not being there. i swear after intelligence, there is nothing sexier than seeing a man with his child. dont get me wrong though, im not trying to be step-momma!
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