Not just holla-ing

darkbrotha33 · #1 08-19-2004

Aight fellaz, help a brotha out here. I'm from NJ, and yall women down
here (looking all good and everything) have brought me to a problem.
Most of the women at these hbcu's are used to getting holla-ed at left & right, so how would you let a girl know that you're REALLY interested in her, and not just trying to holla at her like the rest of the guys, before she blows you off as just another guy holla-ing at her for her number?

eNtice · #2 08-20-2004

And while you're at it...find out why guys try to initiate conversation with "Shorty" and "Ma." What ever happened to "Hi my name is ____. What's yours?" :roll:

Serpent King · #3 08-20-2004

It's all in the approach my *****. You gotta approach a woman so you let her know tha you ain't like the rest of dem *****s off the street that be approachin her. It don't matter what you look like or how strong ya game is, if you come at her respectfully, she'll be less inclined to play you, and you'll have made that bangin first impression. If she still ain't feelin you don't sweat it. You came at her correct.

In Rod We Trust · #4 08-20-2004

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Originally Posted by Serpent King

It's all in the approach my N*gga. You gotta approach a woman so you let her know tha you ain't like the rest of dem *****s off the street that be approachin her. It don't matter what you look like or how strong ya game is, if you come at her respectfully, she'll be less inclined to play you, and you'll have made that bangin first impression. If she still ain't feelin you don't sweat it. You came at her correct.

VERY GOOD!! Go with that answer.....

C Diddy · #5 08-20-2004

Holla-ing is like a nig is in a rush..and is like in a competition with his boys...or you know that as soon as you tell him negative he's gonna be in the next girl's face.

You have to come at a girl...NOT like a pimp...I hate that shyt to...all that soft wispering/whimpering with false hope...but you have to come at me like you really mean it. I gotta feel like I'm special...like you've put some thought into approachin me...have been peeping me since I stepped foot in your vicinity....or you found something special about me. I have to feel like sex is the last thing on your mind. Because horny bastids are a complete turn off.

Serpent King · #6 08-20-2004

Defintely listen to C Diddy! I definitely feelin her on this one. :wink:

AggieWarrior · #7 08-21-2004

seven simple words... come correct or don't come at all...

seriously... i just think some dudes can really come at a female correctly... they just so busy tryna show out for their boys or whatever... so they just act a straight fool... but if they can have a civilized conversation, it goes a long way.... if you can just stop a girl, and formally introduce yourself, and present yourself in a good manner in the first 5-10 mins... it goes a good way