Quick Question...

[Its_like_candie]

Okay guys...i have a question for ya! What are some good topics yall like to talk about when on the phone wit a female? What are some good ice breakers?

I've juss recently started talkin to an old friend and I sometimes cant think of anythang to really talk about. And he doesnt really come up wit convo. But everytime I try n get off the phone...he wont let me! And when he calls me...he dont have nothin to say. I like him a lot and he likes me too...so what could be the problem?! I dont get it...guys fill me in on this!
**CONFUSED & FUSTRATED**

[phoenix]

Alright cuz first what you need to do is just start talking about stuff that interest shorty. After a while you'll start to run out of things, and when this happens try toget in her head some more. When this is accomplished youwill find out that you have lots to talk about. If you two are in the same school or neighborhood the better because you could go visit herat her pad.

[NeoSoulBrotha]

Music is always a good backup. Asking questions is good too. If you ask a good open ended question it can spark up a good half-hour conversation. Especially if you can relate to what he has to say. For a good example, watch Blind Date or something like that and see what they do to start a conversation during those uncomfortable dead moments in the car.

There's nothing more frustrating than sitting on the phone listening to each other breathe but nobody wants to make up an excuse to hang up and seem rude. Trust me, he wants a decent convo just as much as you, it's just hard to get things rolling to begin with. Holla!

[AggieWarrior]

talk about music.... that's the ultimate icebreaker... or any kind of entertainment.... and ask how's things been since y'all haven't talked in a while..

[Proplayaz]

I really dont know a good topic to talk about, but just dont spend too much time thinking about a topic ya know, just go with the flow. Eventually he'll give in, if not, then maybe he's not a phone person... just my 2 cents.

[PimpTight™]

ask him when ya'll gonna ****. That's BOUND to open the flood gates of information.

[Its_like_candie]

Thanks guys! Sooo...I guess I'll go wit talkin bout music! Should I also get into sports??? Yall dont understand...i started watchin football so i can talk about somethin wit him!

Originally Posted by PimpTight™

ask him when ya'll gonna f**k. That's BOUND to open the flood gates of information.

^^^And I somehow knew someone was gonna go there! I guess sex is always a way to win over a convo. But then i dont him thinkin that everytime he talk to me...he gonna get to show me the so-called FREAK N HIM!! Im juss interested in knowin all of him. Cause yall know once ya talk about sex ONCE wit a *****...they'll find a way to bring it up in yer next convo! HOLLA!