Is size an issuse????

Kuntri404Gurl · #1 09-29-2004

Hey,

First how is everybody doing? I'm doing good and college is kickin my ass..lol!!

But anyways I need well, someone opinion. See I'm a plus size girl (the size of Kim off the Parkers, but a pretty one, all the boys say that I'm the prettiest big girl at the school and I take that as compliments. But could someone answer me this, why is it that boys don't like healthy girls? I mean the ones that do is the ones you don't want to be seen with in public (lol...it's the truth). They seem to judge you before knowing you, cause a lot of people though they wouldn't be cool with me when they see me, but when we talk they see that I'm more down to earth than the next "sterotype" female (no offense to anyone). So please help me out on that situation!!

Princess LaRonda · #2 09-29-2004

Girl that is the type of stuff you should NOT worry about...if he's not feelin you just because you're a big girl...then hell to him because you didn't need him in the first place! I'm a big girl myself...i'm not just sloppy fat..HUGE lol blah blah on and on anyway....but I have my share of dudes....You just have to be aggressive and if guys not feelin your size just by "lookin" then you should approach them...most of the time results are pretty damn good trust me!!To be honest it's 2004 all women should be more aggressive and go for what they want...I mean a lot of guys just go by that surface..the one BET...MTV....VIBE..ROLLINGSTONE...and THE SOURCE has created...and if you ain't a DIME then they layin low BUT sometimes its those same guys who are like that...that if you just hit them up and talk to them then they feelin you.....lol you need to find those MATURED males who know whats up....... :lol:

iono if that made sense but I KNOW what I meant

NeoSoulBrotha · #3 09-29-2004

I love me some big gurls... 8)

Princess LaRonda · #4 09-29-2004

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Originally Posted by NeoSoulBrotha

I love me some big gurls... 8)

when we goin out??!

BmoreBabigyrl · #5 09-29-2004

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Originally Posted by NeoSoulBrotha

I love me some big gurls... 8)

Lemme find out....:wink:

One Thick Diva · #6 09-29-2004

I am thick in size and I know that being over a size 10 is sometimes viewed as a handicap in today's society. You just have to be self- assured and carry yourself in a manner that shows you are confident and satisfied with who you are. The images that are presented by the media are said to depict beauty defined rather than showing all aspects of beauty. I know here there would be like 5 girls total in my classes that are my size. So what? I am still me and I don't need validation to be who I am because an opinion will not change my size. Sure, some guys don't like thick girls, until they get hungry :roll: ... then you just point them to the nearest fast food restaurant and cook for a man who appreciates you. :arrow:

Oh, yeah, i have had the f-i-n-e dudes that big girls. You just gotta filter through the dudes these days.... :cry: