Can she be too pretty?

[MidWestGentleman]

if a see a fine azz girl walkin down the street, i would mos def stay away from her cuz the generalization is that she thinks shes better than u and why go through the time and trouble of talking to her when u already know the result about 95% of the time?

[laidbackfella]

Originally Posted by detmi313

if a see a fine azz girl walkin down the street, i would mos def stay away from her cuz the generalization is that she thinks shes better than u and why go through the time and trouble of talking to her when u already know the result about 95% of the time?

Because of that 5%.

Why focus on the negative if there is a glimmer of positive in the situation?

Perhaps they feel that they are better than you cuz that's what you feel from the jump and furthermore show by a timid and reluctant approach.

No woman wants or appreciates a lukewarm approach.

Thoughts support beliefs.

Beliefs supports attitudes.

Attitudes support behavior.

Results of your behavior reinforce thoughts either positively or negatively.

Do all of you fellas feel that glass is half empty?

[juzs0cute703]

i don't know if double standard is the right word but what i'm about to say is goin to be contradicting...juss 2 let ya'll know

okay FIRST i would say why does the way somebody looks matter why you would talk to them. i would say that i'm pretty and it bothers me when random guys-strangers-come & try to talk to me. i mean yeh it's flattering but at the same time i want them to know that there's more to me than juss the way i look.

ok then SECOND even tho i am definitely not the girl to approach a guy (juss b/c i'm too shy :lol: ) but if i was to, i'd probably not wanna holla @ no "pretty boy" juss for the fact that everybody has probably tried...and not necessarily gotten rejected but the pretty boys tend to run more gamez in order to get what they want b/c they know they can get it. ya'll know that cute boys get away w/ alot more than the less attractive ones i guess... not to say that all pretty boys are like that juss like not sayin that all pretty girls are stuck up.

but i dunno basically waht i'm sayin is that i don't think that ppl should base who they wanna talk to by looks...but at the same time i would want somebody to care about how they look--but only to an extent.

[melle_mel]

I have a lot of male friends. Homies that I know well, and actually, from what I've seen the "worst" ones aren't the pretty boys. 9/10 the pretty ones don't have to run game cuz women are willing to spread b/c they're so "pretty". I've seen it time and time again where it didn't take much more than a smile to get her to spread. And I don't care what he looks like he can only get away with what you let him get away with. That's anyone, not just men. I personally believe that women sometimes just won't "man up" to things they maybe could have done to prevent the situation they've found themselves in. And in turn they end up in the same situation over and over, then eventually say 'oh men are dogs'. I think we are sometimes too quick to call a man a dawg or say he runnin game. The clues to let you know the realla was prolly sittin right there in front of you. Man up and accept it.

[HamptonBeauty_08]

I honestly don't know what "type" I fall under: the beautiful, the dazzling, the ugly, whatever. I generally don't think about it. I JUST got off the phone with a "friend" :: clears throat :: who basically just told me that I was too good to be true and made me feel like the greatest woman on Earth... and then he was surprised that I didn't think so myself. I mean, I have a normal self-esteem, but I generally don't walk around with the perception of myself being beautiful and "stunning", and when people get to know me, they find that my personality is more like a dudes than anything else... which is what is making this "friend" :: clears throat :: fall for me.... so I guess I'm just basically asking females, or whoever, is it possible to not KNOW that others perceive you as being beautiful and stuck up? Cause I smile all the time, and I know I'm goofy as hell... or maybe someone who knows me should comment.....

[Serpent King]

@ HamptonBeauty.....
It's basicall this running belief that if ya generally considered beautiful, people automatically assume ya stuck up. Your friend who you were talking about got to know you, and to him, you are the most beautiful woman on Earth. I know you ain't stuck up, and I sure as hell know how goofy you are. Lol. Don't be so focused on how people perceive you. It was aid on here earlier, theres more to you than just how you look. *****s you talk to will realize that hopefully sooner than later. It sure sounds like ya freind did.

[Drama_King]

LOL..All black girls are not beautiful and im not wana of them *****s who feen for the light skinned chick. There be some b=Buda as light one out there. But foreal foreal i might fall back on a chick who always tryin to be on the scene. I mean you gotta stay fresh to death ya gear gotta stay on point. But sopmetimes you wana just chill. i mean in the summer whne i was in va it was raining and damp and i was in sweats a hoody and some 12's and im thinking this is whats up. i hear cliick clock click clokc and in come walking girls in heels and skirts with the make up on im like damn thats feen status. Even they was lookin cute in there MINONONOs lol they was whallin in that weather.