Can she be too pretty?

[melle_mel]

Why is it that men sometimes shy away from women who are very attractive (I'm talking stunning/dazzling not just pretty) and confident, carrying herself well and with class? Is gorgeous too beautiful? Is it intimidating? Are they afraid of rejection? What's up?

[R-Tistic]

Basically, it's all of that. Intimidation, fear of rejection, and some people just don't even like havin a girlfriend or talkin to a girl who looks that good because they assume they are spoiled and probably stuck up. I know dudes who might not even get with a super fine female if they had the chance, because they always gotta be worried about dudes tryin to holla at her and all. Also, some fine girls just have that look on their face like "yeah I know I'm fine, so don't even try to talk to me."

But to me, there is two types of bein like super, amazingly fine. There is the one that usually describes most sex icons, who have that sexy ass intimidatin look, that if you saw in person and they weren't famous, would just seem like they were too confident and stuck up. Then there are the fine girls that are more less "cute" because they might look bomb as ever, but they are always smilin and they look like they are very nice.

[Dr.BrandedBison, CP]

Personally, if a woman is beautiful to the point where I feel as if she walks down the street and several dudes gonna holla constantly then Imma definately shy away from her.

[melle_mel]

Thanks for replying. I'm not talking about the cute girls. Maybe more like the icon you spoke of, I guess. I am feelin y'all, but worrying about other men tryin to holla sounds like a personal problem to me. I mean, if she'd let another dude game her then she's not worth your time, and that should have been established prior to any commitment. And if that's the case, I'm not talking about her, either. This type has her mind right. Ya feel me. And though not all pretty women are stuck up, I know that some are and I can't stand that. No matter how attractive you are, if you have a ugly-a** attitude, you're ugly and need to learn humility. I don't know how y'all deal with it. Thanks again 4 your insight.

[Jiggy G]

The general perception that men have about "those type" of females is that they have what they want financially, and sexually :interms of their look :that is they use it to get what they want. They are usually "workaholic" and "theives".They r usually considered the rotten apples. Looks all goood on the outside, talk a bite and they will poisin u. In the Caribbean we call them "Ornaments" because they r beautifull to look at and that all there is to them.

[laidbackfella]

No.

No female is too pretty to holla at or have a relationship with.

I talk to the pretty ones like I would talk to the ugly ones.

If I don't talk to em some other dude may.

And I'd rather increase my odds of being the one on the phone with her later that night.

[CJ The Hustla]

for me...I would rather a girl with potential, then one who walks around like she has reached the epitomy of beauty, but that's just Chad...it's all a matter of tastes, and how you feel about yourself..for instance..I'm a white tee and jeans kinda guy, although I look good wearing it (lol)...I dont want a girl who's gonna wear heels and skirts ALL the time...I want a girl who can throw on some sweats and some tims, and still look cute...a girl that can put on nothing but one of my tee's, and STILL make me want to lay her down...

For me, alot of times when I see these girls with these stellar outfits on, and make up, perfectly waxed eyebrows and ish, it's a turn off, first of all, there is no sense of realism for me, and therefore I cannot connect with her...I mean, alot of times, it's the "appearance" of beauty with girls like that, because of the clothes and such, and not that they actually are THAT BANGIN...

Second thing is, when a girl has potential, that you just have to bring out of her, I just, I LOVE that, I dont know why, it's like all those movies where the guy makes a bet with his boys to take the nerd to the prom, and ends up making her over and she becomes the baddest chick in the school...I mean, maybe it's cuz I'm at Central, but it's like, these guys hawk down on these girls and ish (most of them aint even all that) and these girls get the big head, makes you not wanna holla...

It's sometimes nice to take a girl who's on the verge, and give her that confidence she needs to propell herself into full dime-hood...

Lastly, tying in to the whole breaking them out the shell thing, I feel like girls that are EXTRA "Gorgeous" have already been broken out of that shell and are already used to a certain level, and somethings got to give, like Ben and J.Lo, Ben became a metro freakin sexual..gay...anyway, maybe it's cuz I'm still sorta in my beauty shell, and I know if I get wit the right girl, we can bring each other out..