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02-22-2005
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Sophmore
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Will you pay for it ?
I have a question to teh men of this board 
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8) |
02-22-2005
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Sophmore
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Join Date: Oct 2004
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haha..this is a good one *gets out my luv potion #9* :twisted: :twisted:
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TOP TEN REASONS WHY PEOPLE DISLIKE ME...
10.Because they are haters.
9.They wanna be me!
8.Because they are haters.
7.They can't handle the truth.
6.Because they are haters.
5.I got the ***** they wanted.
4.Because they are haters.
3.I'm confident with myself.
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#1 Reason: BECAUSE I DONT GIVE A ****!!!!!
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02-23-2005
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Sophmore
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Women that I deal with go through stages.
In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways.
Nothing Material.
In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering.
Still nothing material.
In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy.
Both my money and my time are investments.
The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
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02-23-2005
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Junior
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I would pay for some of it like mabye 2once is a while but with the unnecessaries stuff.......yall on ya own
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02-23-2005
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HBCU Elite Member
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When did it become my responsibility to pay for her hair, nails, and shopping sprees? Is she payin for me to get my haircut or my new Js?
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02-23-2005
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Alumni
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Join Date: Dec 2003
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once in a blue moon... not all the time though...
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I'm a grown man dog I ain't no ***** (A warrior!)
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02-23-2005
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Alumni
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Join Date: Apr 2003
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Originally Posted by laidbackfella
Women that I deal with go through stages.
In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways.
Nothing Material.
In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering.
Still nothing material.
In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy.
Both my money and my time are investments.
The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
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Tru. 8)
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Originally Posted by Da_Rodfather
When did it become my responsibility to pay for her hair, nails, and shopping sprees? Is she payin for me to get my haircut or my new Js?
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You didnt read what she said. She didnt say its your responsibility, but just something you are willing and most importantly WANT to do for the female you are with that you truly care about.
And to answer your question, if Im with a dude Im really feeling and we been datin for awhile, and I know he not the type to try to use me or my money...then no I wouldnt have a problem spending loot on him. Lets say I had a good job where I always had money in my pocket just to spend. I wouldnt mind giving him money every now and then so he could pay for a fresh cut, or buy him the newest Jordans...ASSUMING I got money like that. Its a give and take in my opinion.
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