Help me out Fellas

rain07 · #1 04-08-2005

I have been going out with a boy for a year and 7 months. We are very happy and get along. I'm a virgin and he is not. Before we started going out he had a very active sex life. So my question is how can a boy go from having sex 4 times a week to none at all? I dont wnat to make it seem like i dont trust him its just that i know boys. All of my best friends are boys so i know how they think. So help me out fellas.

increasing the hate · #2 04-08-2005

he's eitha a keeper or he cheatin on ya

In Rod We Trust · #3 04-08-2005

You just gotta have a tight grip and a strong wrist....

demmeri · #4 04-09-2005

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Originally Posted by rain07

I have been going out with a boy for a year and 7 months. We are very happy and get along. I'm a virgin and he is not. Before we started going out he had a very active sex life. So my question is how can a boy go from having sex 4 times a week to none at all? I dont wnat to make it seem like i dont trust him its just that i know boys. All of my best friends are boys so i know how they think. So help me out fellas.

i dunno dude....if he seriously likes you and wants to be with you, then trust, he's waiting...but i dunno depending on how old he is, the cat is cheating...does he tell you he loves you? does he call you whenever he gets a chance or do you feel like you're the one that's chasing his monkey ass around and it's like he don't even want to be bothered...

the thing is with virgin chicks dating ex-slut boys is that whenever yall get into an aurgument and maybe "cool off" for like a week or two, guess what he's doing?

i dunno man just tell him how you would feel if he were to evre hurt you in that way...when chicks tell us "how they would feel if you did ___", it puts this little nagging in our ear whenever we try to do it...

i dunno i think you should at least kiss the dude...i would definately wait for my girl...but i just want her to smooch her while she's sitting on m lap...fellas i;m telling yall this is better than sex! this and humping...i'm telling yall i know what i'm talking about...you just sitting there staring ya girl in the eye as she's sitting on your lap and you're slobbing here down? you kidding me? i'm sitting here getting horny just thinking about it...let me remind you that i'm in a public library 8-) (nessa)

Sed_Ated · #5 04-09-2005

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Originally Posted by demmeri

the thing is with virgin chicks dating ex-slut boys is that whenever yall get into an aurgument and maybe "cool off" for like a week or two, guess what he's doing?

My man Demmeri hit the nail on the head wit that one.

Kool 2k6 · #6 04-09-2005

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Originally Posted by rain07

I have been going out with a boy for a year and 7 months. We are very happy and get along. I'm a virgin and he is not. Before we started going out he had a very active sex life. So my question is how can a boy go from having sex 4 times a week to none at all? I dont wnat to make it seem like i dont trust him its just that i know boys. All of my best friends are boys so i know how they think. So help me out fellas.

You should ask him exactly what I bolded and underlined in your quote. Nothing will kill a relationship faster than a lack of communication. It's like relationship poison.

If you want MY honest opinion....he's either a damn good dude that has changed his ways, or he's giving somebody else a piece of his pecker. Would you believe that there are actually guys that have will-power and can do without sex 24-7?? Well there are a few of those walking earth. I'm living proof.

rain07 · #7 04-11-2005

He has said he loved me before and he express a lot of caring for me and i like that.I do kiss him a lot and i really enjoy that. I hope he's not out there giving it up to someone else and he is 18. His explaination was that he went through the phase having sex a lot and he was ready for a change.So i guess we need to have a talk about it. We dont argue at all. Its like we charish the time we spend together so why waste it. You ever been in a relationship and just wanted to know how it was going to end or what it is going to develop into? Thats how i feel but i dont want to press him about the future because that sometimes scares guys if you know what i mean? So i dont know if i should risk it. Talk to you guys later