How important is sex to you????

[atlprincess]

It's so crazy that you asked this question. My boyfriend and I broke up mainly because of the fact he was ready to have sex and I was not. He knew from the beginning that I was a virgin and he said he would wait. I guess he became impatient because he would constantly try and question my love for him simply because I wouldn't jump in the bed. On the other hand, I was speaking with another male who I used to date and I told him he was the only one I would consider having sex with...and he said he would try to talk me out of it at first out of respect for me and to make sure it was what I really wanted. He pretty much summed it up by saying if I was ready and was positive then it'd be coo.

I say all of this to say that sex is really important to most guys/relationships...but I feel like if you are truly in love and devoted to someone, you are willing to wait on them and will not try to pressure them or make them feel guilty.

[Sed_Ated]

Originally Posted by demmeri

i'm serious though....yall chicks can get a n!g hard as hell just by sitting in his lap...with your arms around him...grrr.... 8-) (nessa)

Up in your studio getting blow... that's the truest shyt you ever wrote...

[SuperFly]

I place a whole lot more priority on other things than sex in a relationship. People used to tell me that I'd turn into some sex maniac after I lost my virginity, but the opposite happened. I'm really quite passive about it. Not that I don't enjoy it, I just have other things that I'd rather do with someone most of the time. I guess I have an Antione Fisher view of it.

Officer: Are you hungry?
Fisher: Nah, but I could eat.

Having sex all the time is just too much for me. Ya get all sweaty. Then I gotta wait for her to be able to move so I can put the linens back on the bed. If we do it at night, I might have to wake her up in the morning. I have to put neosporin on my back (do you have any idea how hard it is to put neosporin on your back?! Toon_PDT_14 ). I might have to fix breakfast. For some odd reason feminine juices dry my skin out so I have to wash up really, really quick. Toon_PDT_10 I have to wash the sheets as soon as possible. I gotta get that latex smell offa me. I don't need her to tell me my first name over and over again. I haven't forgotten it. Its just too damn much to do all the time. Most of the time, I'd rather just spend time with her. I like just spending time with someone. Making her laugh or smile. Admiring her if she's asleep. Yeah, women get mad when they want it and the guy doesn't. They get stubborn and irritated, but I don't hear them complaining when you're just making them smile either.

[demmeri]

Originally Posted by atlprincess

It's so crazy that you asked this question. My boyfriend and I broke up mainly because of the fact he was ready to have sex and I was not. He knew from the beginning that I was a virgin and he said he would wait. I guess he became impatient because he would constantly try and question my love for him simply because I wouldn't jump in the bed. On the other hand, I was speaking with another male who I used to date and I told him he was the only one I would consider having sex with...and he said he would try to talk me out of it at first out of respect for me and to make sure it was what I really wanted. He pretty much summed it up by saying if I was ready and was positive then it'd be coo.

I say all of this to say that sex is really important to most guys/relationships...but I feel like if you are truly in love and devoted to someone, you are willing to wait on them and will not try to pressure them or make them feel guilty.

that's really messed up that's the reason why yall broke up...

sh!t i want me a girl that's waitng :???: 8-) (evy)

[CrunkMonkey85]

Originally Posted by Aggie Highlander

I place a whole lot more priority on other things than sex in a relationship. People used to tell me that I'd turn into some sex maniac after I lost my virginity, but the opposite happened. I'm really quite passive about it. Not that I don't enjoy it, I just have other things that I'd rather do with someone most of the time. I guess I have an Antwone Fisher view of it.

Officer: Are you hungry?
Fisher: Nah, but I could eat.

Having sex all the time is just too much for me. Ya get all sweaty. Then I gotta wait for her to be able to move so I can put the linens back on the bed. If we do it at night, I might have to wake her up in the morning. I have to put neosporin on my back (do you have any idea how hard it is to put neosporin on your back?! Toon_PDT_14 ). I might have to fix breakfast. For some odd reason feminine juices dry my skin out so I have to wash up really, really quick. Toon_PDT_10 I have to wash the sheets as soon as possible. I gotta get that latex smell offa me. I don't need her to tell me my first name over and over again. I haven't forgotten it. Its just too damn much to do all the time. Most of the time, I'd rather just spend time with her. I like just spending time with someone. Making her laugh or smile. Admiring her if she's asleep. Yeah, women get mad when they want it and the guy doesn't. They get stubborn and irritated, but I don't hear them complaining when you're just making them smile either.

Funny stuff. You're name's Larry right? :lol:
What am I laughing about? A girl screaming "Tim!" over and over doesn't sound much better now that I think about it.

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by CrunkMonkey07

Funny stuff. You're name's Larry right? :lol:

At your service.

Originally Posted by CrunkMonkey07

What am I laughing about? A girl screaming "Tim!" over and over doesn't sound much better now that I think about it.

The truth is a mutha****a ain't it?

[ClassyWisdom08]

interesting