How important is sex to you????

[The Big Girl Sweetz]

Originally Posted by BigDaddy Tres

I meant to say Im sexual in nature...Im not a huge freak that just has to get it; Ive been through droughts just like any other guy...It doesnt hit me as hard as some who get all depressed if they dont get some because I figure when I do then my baby will get the bizness. The Bizness.

:lol: The Bizness ....mmmmmhmmmmm

[QUAlity]

sex isn't that important 2 me. it's about what can she bring to the table besides sexual gratification.

[chrisfrmatl]

For me, a woman is suppose to make us wait until we put a ring on her finger. But these days, a lot of women don't value their virginity or chastity that way. Sex is suppose to be a demonstration of love, not lust. That's why GOd make it possible for children to be reprodcued with sex, because we are suppose to be doing it through an act of love. But too foten, it;s an act of lust. Hence the fatherless and some motherless people we have today.

[saxxxmepoetically]

Originally Posted by demmeri

she can read to you while sitting in your lap \/ 8-) (nessa)

You dirty dirty old man.... lol
"Hey girl why dont you come sit on my lap and read one of those Zane Novels."

Anyways... It depends on how important it really is to you.. if she can understand that you have needs and you might have to get those needs met somewhere else, then do you.. But you also have to realize that she might not put up with it

[justiFIYAHble]

I don't get that about men sometime...I made that mistake with the guy that I talk to now...but right after it happened...I made it clear...that whenever we are together...do not expect to get any kinda of sexual attention everytime...that is just an added perk not your God given right and do u know that he got mad and said aint no female puttin him on a pussy restriction. Why don't some males realize that there are hundreds of things you can do together besides have sex? I honestly regret even givin it to him...I wish that I could just find someone that was not even about it like dat...i mean its good and all but goodness...it is no where near the feeling you get just know in that you make ur partner happy and sex is not the only way in succeeding in that department

[So_Focused]

Originally Posted by Aggie Highlander

I place a whole lot more priority on other things than sex in a relationship. People used to tell me that I'd turn into some sex maniac after I lost my virginity, but the opposite happened. I'm really quite passive about it. Not that I don't enjoy it, I just have other things that I'd rather do with someone most of the time. I guess I have an Antione Fisher view of it.

Officer: Are you hungry?
Fisher: Nah, but I could eat.

Having sex all the time is just too much for me. Ya get all sweaty. Then I gotta wait for her to be able to move so I can put the linens back on the bed. If we do it at night, I might have to wake her up in the morning. I have to put neosporin on my back (do you have any idea how hard it is to put neosporin on your back?! Toon_PDT_14 ). I might have to fix breakfast. For some odd reason feminine juices dry my skin out so I have to wash up really, really quick. Toon_PDT_10 I have to wash the sheets as soon as possible. I gotta get that latex smell offa me. I don't need her to tell me my first name over and over again. I haven't forgotten it. Its just too damn much to do all the time. Most of the time, I'd rather just spend time with her. I like just spending time with someone. Making her laugh or smile. Admiring her if she's asleep. Yeah, women get mad when they want it and the guy doesn't. They get stubborn and irritated, but I don't hear them complaining when you're just making them smile either.

lol,neva heard a dude say that before, funny stuff

[REALMANISME]

SEX TO ME HAS ALWAYS BEEN AN ADDED BONUS TO WHAT I'M

REALLY LOOKING FOR WITH MY GIRL. IF SHE HAS ALOT OF STUFF I'M

NOT LOOKING FOR AND LOTS OF SEX, I'LL PASS. I WOULDN'T HAVE

BEEN ABLE TO HOLD OUT AS LONG AS I DID IF I JUST WANTED SEX. ALL

THE BABY MOMMA AND FATHER DRAMA IS BASED AROUND SEX BEING

HIGH ON SOMEONE'S PRIORITY LIST IF YOU ASK ME. I FOUND MY GIRL

AT THE AGE OF 23, AND TO THINK THAT I ACTUALLY FELT EVERYTHING

WAS PASSING ME BY IS CRAZY. YOU CAN USUALLY TELL WHEN

SOMETHING IS REAL AND GOING PLACES. IT'S THE VIBES, NOT THE

INFATUATION.