For the Guys who Like to Give Head

[Blutifully Human]

^^^Becuz she's short, white, and skinny

Originally Posted by Miss_404

Hmm, i have yet to encountered a boyfriend who gives bad head. I mean, how do you tell someone there not working with half the skills they think they are?

easy, u just say "listen here chump...you suck! and not in a good way either :smt075" ....then u say "i only tell u these things hun becuz i want to see you at your best in all that u do :smt056 "

[Wisdom_Tree]

*looks up, shakes his head* Lemme see...

I think a while back I had a guide to good oral sex for men...the post was filled with estranged faces of a sort. Id like to say, some women dont know what the hell is going on with their bodies in the first place, so if they havent experimented with themselves and know what they like then its going to be that much harder to make them cum.

Its a very complicated project (making a girl cum using your mouth) because theres a matter of Pressure, Speed, Texture and Placement. Its also alot easier to imagine good eating out skills if you can read emotions or try to understand it as if you were her.

Pressure-

So if its too soft itll tickle and if its too hard itll hurt. Whats the perfect amount of pressure? It, like so many other things, vary from person to person, clit to clit, because not all clits were created equal and some take more (or a WHOLE lot less) than others. Its been in my personal experience that 95% of oral sex performed on women takes place within an inch and a half of the clit. Therefore you shouldnt be anywhere else anyway, and if youre sticking your tongue inside her then you better know what youre doing before hand. *too much detail, rewinds*

Speed -

Oral sex is like regular sex in this way: the pace changes. Lethargically slow movements might get you slapped and if you are like a bear searching for fish in a pond you might get your neck snapped by her thighs. Slow, swooping motions (think of your tongue dancing a medium-slow type waltz over her....special place) are great. Whats better? Pearl like clitoris's can be easily stimulated because of their relative size. If you can relax your tongue, you should be able to quickly flick the tip of it over and over, effectively stimulating. Practice though - as you will soon realize that your tongue is a muscle that tires.

Texture -

The inside of your lip and your tongue are the only things that need to find their way to her vagina during oral (not counting fingers). Id try to stay away from lodging your fingers inside of her and licking (mostly on a sidenote for guys...youre trying to see how much you can pleasure her without actually entering her). Kissing and suckling on the clit can greatly arouse your partner, as well as a combination of both with a slow, lapping tongue (watch a cat drink milk) and youll find that she'll be purring. Sooner.

Placement -

Its a world right there in one clitoris...you have to find a new way to explore that bad boy, so whatre you going to do? Im not going to go into detail too hard on this because I ended up writing out a friggin list of things...but in short, you should try to go for circular motions, a back and forth affect, Alphabet *which is fun because you end up forgetting what letters to "write" when shes moaning* and other things as well. I think Ive traumatized you all enough...

[Princess LaRonda]

Originally Posted by BigDaddy Tres

*looks up, shakes his head* Lemme see...

I think a while back I had a guide to good oral sex for men...the post was filled with estranged faces of a sort. Id like to say, some women dont know what the hell is going on with their bodies in the first place, so if they havent experimented with themselves and know what they like then its going to be that much harder to make them cum.

Its a very complicated project (making a girl cum using your mouth) because theres a matter of Pressure, Speed, Texture and Placement. Its also alot easier to imagine good eating out skills if you can read emotions or try to understand it as if you were her.

Pressure-

So if its too soft itll tickle and if its too hard itll hurt. Whats the perfect amount of pressure? It, like so many other things, vary from person to person, clit to clit, because not all clits were created equal and some take more (or a WHOLE lot less) than others. Its been in my personal experience that 95% of oral sex performed on women takes place within an inch and a half of the clit. Therefore you shouldnt be anywhere else anyway, and if youre sticking your tongue inside her then you better know what youre doing before hand. *too much detail, rewinds*

Speed -

Oral sex is like regular sex in this way: the pace changes. Lethargically slow movements might get you slapped and if you are like a bear searching for fish in a pond you might get your neck snapped by her thighs. Slow, swooping motions (think of your tongue dancing a medium-slow type waltz over her....special place) are great. Whats better? Pearl like clitoris's can be easily stimulated because of their relative size. If you can relax your tongue, you should be able to quickly flick the tip of it over and over, effectively stimulating. Practice though - as you will soon realize that your tongue is a muscle that tires.

Texture -

The inside of your lip and your tongue are the only things that need to find their way to her vagina during oral (not counting fingers). Id try to stay away from lodging your fingers inside of her and licking (mostly on a sidenote for guys...youre trying to see how much you can pleasure her without actually entering her). Kissing and suckling on the clit can greatly arouse your partner, as well as a combination of both with a slow, lapping tongue (watch a cat drink milk) and youll find that she'll be purring. Sooner.

Placement -

Its a world right there in one clitoris...you have to find a new way to explore that bad boy, so whatre you going to do? Im not going to go into detail too hard on this because I ended up writing out a friggin list of things...but in short, you should try to go for circular motions, a back and forth affect, Alphabet *which is fun because you end up forgetting what letters to "write" when shes moaning* and other things as well. I think Ive traumatized you all enough...

good literature

[demmeri]

Originally Posted by fyne_dyme2005

alright now her pic is startin to disturb me just a bit. now if this is another one of the pictures of random females you find attractive CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHY MICHELLE?!?! dont get me wrong she has come a long way from harriet the spy.. i was shocked to see how she turned out on euro trip.... but i think the girl still has somewhat of a journey to go through.. but yes i would like to know what makes her attractive lol just curious.

i've always been attracted to her...ever since pete and pete...man she's definately the GF type...and a cuty...i swear if i was little pete, i would have hooked up with that... (michelle)

[demmeri]

Originally Posted by BigDaddy Tres

*looks up, shakes his head* Lemme see...

I think a while back I had a guide to good oral sex for men...the post was filled with estranged faces of a sort. Id like to say, some women dont know what the hell is going on with their bodies in the first place, so if they havent experimented with themselves and know what they like then its going to be that much harder to make them cum.

Its a very complicated project (making a girl cum using your mouth) because theres a matter of Pressure, Speed, Texture and Placement. Its also alot easier to imagine good eating out skills if you can read emotions or try to understand it as if you were her.

Pressure-

So if its too soft itll tickle and if its too hard itll hurt. Whats the perfect amount of pressure? It, like so many other things, vary from person to person, clit to clit, because not all clits were created equal and some take more (or a WHOLE lot less) than others. Its been in my personal experience that 95% of oral sex performed on women takes place within an inch and a half of the clit. Therefore you shouldnt be anywhere else anyway, and if youre sticking your tongue inside her then you better know what youre doing before hand. *too much detail, rewinds*

Speed -

Oral sex is like regular sex in this way: the pace changes. Lethargically slow movements might get you slapped and if you are like a bear searching for fish in a pond you might get your neck snapped by her thighs. Slow, swooping motions (think of your tongue dancing a medium-slow type waltz over her....special place) are great. Whats better? Pearl like clitoris's can be easily stimulated because of their relative size. If you can relax your tongue, you should be able to quickly flick the tip of it over and over, effectively stimulating. Practice though - as you will soon realize that your tongue is a muscle that tires.

Texture -

The inside of your lip and your tongue are the only things that need to find their way to her vagina during oral (not counting fingers). Id try to stay away from lodging your fingers inside of her and licking (mostly on a sidenote for guys...youre trying to see how much you can pleasure her without actually entering her). Kissing and suckling on the clit can greatly arouse your partner, as well as a combination of both with a slow, lapping tongue (watch a cat drink milk) and youll find that she'll be purring. Sooner.

Placement -

Its a world right there in one clitoris...you have to find a new way to explore that bad boy, so whatre you going to do? Im not going to go into detail too hard on this because I ended up writing out a friggin list of things...but in short, you should try to go for circular motions, a back and forth affect, Alphabet *which is fun because you end up forgetting what letters to "write" when shes moaning* and other things as well. I think Ive traumatized you all enough...

LAME...

and what do you mean it's a complicated project to get a girl to cum during oral????? i got a chick to cum like 10 times in one sitting!!! have you ever had a girl ask you "can we do that again?" i mean this girls just came out and asked ME if i could do it again...lol...i miss working at the nursing home..

ladies, if you saw the technique i posted on here like about 2 years ago, you'd know my technique is like the greastes...adn that ain't even my go-to gimmick...

you don't believe me? PM me your number and i'll prove it... (michelle)

[Wisdom_Tree]

This isnt the "who gives better oral sex" post, I was just talkin about some main points. Im a long poster, big deal.

And yes, I have been asked for seconds. 8) (and thirds and...)

[CheyneyDove5]

Originally Posted by BigDaddy Tres

Id like to say, some women dont know what the hell is going on with their bodies in the first place, so if they havent experimented with themselves and know what they like then its going to be that much harder to make them cum.

Its a very complicated project (making a girl cum using your mouth) because theres a matter of Pressure, Speed, Texture and Placement. Its also alot easier to imagine good eating out skills if you can read emotions or try to understand it as if you were her.

I think he's absolutely right about some females not knowing what's going on with their bodies. You have to know what will make u 'climax' to the point of desire. If you don't know how to get to your peak then how in the world to u expect him to?

Also, from what ive heard from my male friends and even my boyfriend is that they like a little coaching. If you're not feeling it then don't just lay there(sit, stand...what ever situation u may be in) and take it. TELL HIM WHAT TO DO! You'll be doing yourself a favor as well as him.

I also think it works both ways, like when roles are reversed. Guys, if a girl is giving u head and it's bad...dont let her keep going...LET HER KNOW AND TEACH HER!