relationship problems

[sassy carmel]

if u ask ur girlfriend/boyfriend is she/he talking 2 another ***** and she/he tells u yea but they didn't have sex and gave u the number to ask him/her and he/she told the truth would u break up or stay

[TheRealOne]

If she my girlfriend and she tells me that she is talking to another man, I'd have to break up. I don't give a fat fucc if they had sex or not. The hell is she doing talking to another dude? You obviously don't want to be with me and there's plenty of girls out there that will be down for me.

[M o o N i e]

deeeeeee **** you said?

[Jamila iz Back!]

Originally Posted by KiLLaTraV

deeeeeee f**k you said?

:lol: yea I admit, I had to go back and read it again slowly cause of all the he/she was throwin me off..

But anyways...Would I break up with him if I found out he was talking to another girl but they aint did the do? Prolly so. What the fukk you talkin to another female like that anyway. You supposed to be into me, and not some other broad. It starts out as just talkin, and next it will lead, to hanging out, a inncoent date, then the bed...I feel like if a person is TRULY putting their all into a current relationship, they wouldnt have time to be semi-involved with someone else, or however you wanna word it.

[Wisdom_Tree]

Its all about levels of commitment. Men draw less (and less distinct) lines when it comes to dating than women do. Prime example here would be if the guy though that it was okay to talk to someone else if they arent intimate wheras, with a woman, she would think that cheating would be if he so much as picked up the phone to call another girl except for her.

Extreme? Guys get stuck in that gray area where they dont know what is permissable, and the wrong ones are the guys trying to Exploit the ignorance of the relationship, saying things like "Well I didnt know". Thats why you have to ask before you get in the relationship to find out what exactly she wants from you as far as committing, and vice versa. The best question: "So, what is your view on commitment/being boyfriend and girlfriend?" (for those who are afraid to say the C word).

[Thoroughly_Confused]

The only thing that I could think of is, does he actually know that he is your boyfriend. ALot of times people (most of the time females) can read more into a relationship than what the other person sees. If you two did not clearly discuss the in and outs of what it is that is going on between you two, then to him he may not have been cheating. If the lines and boundaries are not clearly defined, then how can you expect him to just know what it is that you consider appropriate.

[Kool 2k6]

Alright, dammit. We're gonna get learn some sentence structure before we go posting stuff....Because you will confuse us shitless if you dont.