Y yall trip off our guy friends?

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by AfroPoeticSista

she said friend from high school. just becuz we are in a relationship doesn't mean we cut off all contact with members of the opposite sex. do you people not believe in the concept of platonic friendship?

Hewl the **** nawl.

[Serpent King]

^^^...LMAO. Basically.

The paper at my school recently did an article on this topic. The consensus was that having a platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex was rare at best. They stressed the fact the after a while the two get tired of each other and drift apart, or they see something in each other which causes the friendship to flourish. The probelm is what ever traits that cuased you to be attracted to that person as a friend, will begin to make them attractive romantically. Lets face it, it happens.

[Daya]

see i don't agree...

All of my best friends have been males. ALL of them and in neither case did a romantic relationship flourish or try to. We're all still great friends so i mean i don't see how a relationship with a person, who happens to be a male, messes up a relationship with someone else. BUT i did get nasty eyes and glances at the girls who my friends are dating... i don't like that look. I don't want your man, i already know more about him then i need to..

AND isn't knowing your male friend more than any other woman ought to kind of a turn-off?

[SuperFly]

And if you arched your booty at him in just the right way or hugged him a split second longer than normal, your guy friends would pounce on you like a Somalian on a cheeseburger... Whether you (or them) would like to admit it or not.

[Serpent King]

^^^...LMAO @ pounce on you like a Somolian on a cheeseburger.

Daya I understad what you're saying, but you can't speak for your make friends, and hwo they feel about you. They just may not be straight with it, cause they don't wanna ruin what you guys have. And YES, it is a problem if a female friend I have knows me better than my girl. That's a receipe for trouble. That's why you're getting the griz from their girlfriends. Your competition, whether you see yourself that way or not.

[giniacuty_757]

Originally Posted by Mrs. Obannon

Fellas... How come yall got problems wit us ladies havin friends that are guys? I told my boyfriend that my friend from high school was comin from detroit back home to do somethin at the radio station here (he's in the music industry). When I told him that I was goin to see him, maybe for dinner or something, he flipped out!! Why is what I wanna kno?

Fellas...?

YES thats soo true I want to kno that answer too its crazy how they be overreactin ITz not that serious





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[Serpent King]

^^^ :???: ...Just read the ongoing conversation up top.