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The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence: Perception is the mother of numerous break-ups. There is no reason to gain more friends of the opposite gender unless you looking. Most of the time for trouble or validation if you feel your partner is lacking in whatever area. For those with friends already, tread lightly. If old boy/girl wanna hang out, do it together as a crew (u, ur mate, and the friend). This will dissuade any and all feasible doubts. But if you go on the date anyway, without your partner, you are asking your mate to trust both of you. You "could" be trustworthy, but all it takes is perception. Now the question at hand: is your current relationship's health worth dinner (innocent or otherwise)?
Like I always advise younger troops who think doing something could get them in hot water: I normally say, "Do what you "think" your career can handle. And if you are wrong, be prepared to accept whatever the outcome." In this case, do what you think your relationship can handle.
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