Y yall trip off our guy friends?

[Mrs. Obannon]

Fellas... How come yall got problems wit us ladies havin friends that are guys? I told my boyfriend that my friend from high school was comin from detroit back home to do somethin at the radio station here (he's in the music industry). When I told him that I was goin to see him, maybe for dinner or something, he flipped out!! Why is what I wanna kno?

Fellas...?

[Serpent King]

First off, I just need to say how beautiful I think you are.

As far as guys having aproblem with a girls guy friends...thats just us being us. We feel threatened by another guy who' snot fam that you're really tight with. Girls feel the same whether they admit it or not about our close female friends. It's not like he doesn't trust you..it's just him being him. You need to be worried when he doesn't have a problem with you going out with another guy for dinner.

[P/Rettyboyblue]

I think for most its just insecurity. The thought of someone taking their place doesnt sit well and to fill the void they are feeling. I feel like if you have to trip over their friends, then its a trust issue that you have to deal with.

[Serpent King]

^^^...I concur.

[P/Rettyboyblue]

Just from my own personal experiences, I've had alot more of it come from females than the other way around. Especially if a male has alot of females friends. But that just my experience.

[laidbackfella]

Originally Posted by Mrs. Obannon

Fellas... How come yall got problems wit us ladies havin friends that are guys? I told my boyfriend that my friend from high school was comin from detroit back home to do somethin at the radio station here (he's in the music industry). When I told him that I was goin to see him, maybe for dinner or something, he flipped out!! Why is what I wanna kno?

Fellas...?

Unless that man finds that female extremely ugly a man will always WANT to screw that female.

Certain situations and scenarios may give cause for an exemption.

If you and dude visiting town have a prior romantic history then your boyfriend may have cause for concern.

How would you feel if he was going to dinner with a female that has the same relationship as you and ole dude?

[Serpent King]

^^^...I couldn't have said it better. It's not like you're going to meet up with somebody for a project or something, you guys have a tight relationship and that makes him more of a threat.