does it matter?

[giniacuty_757]

Originally Posted by Serpent King

^^^...Aight now, lets not just limit it to guys. I've definitely been told by a female they couldn't date me cause I was ligthskinned and therefore had the potential to be grimey.

WOW thats wrong and again its a ignorant ass stereotype I dont judge fellaz for the most part I have too many male friends which I think limits me from thinking like the average female does about guys and based on color u cant out come any one as being grimey thats stupid and those females poor things dont know any better I looooove all my brothaz from dark chocolate to light bright I dont discriminate when it comes to my brothas but its SOME brothaz that got their negative attitudes and nasty ways and I stay clear away from them just like with some females just got yuck personalities u be ready to slap sone of them QUick.

I base my attraction on man is by his mind and if he can dress thats usually what i love but im nto always about the physical long as u can dress lol but Im human and my physical qualities of a brotha is deepa than his skin its more like clothes, styles, hair, health, and good hygene. thats what I base myne on otha females may think differently but everyone has a preference as long as its legitamate I dont have a problem but when its stupid things like ^^ the ones we heard then I have a problem wit it.

BOTH Brothaz y Sistahz need to get it together we are the color we are for reasons we whether dark brown light whatever hold that one thing in common that our ancestors were slaves no matter how much we deny or stereotype or judge we cant deny our Roots True Story u jsut cant so all that slave mentality shyt about light is better than darkand if u light u soft and what not cuz none of its true all LIES i refuse to be apart of that bullshyt not me and the smart ones will agree



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[Damon]

The shade of her complexion does not matter to me. I love my sistahs anywhere from blue black and high yellow, to everything in between. Call me the rainbow coalition cuz, I love women of all ethnicities (but I prefer my sistahs).

[Playzonlyliveonce]

this might be wrong but fcuk it ....If i ever decide to make one of yall my "girlfriend" she'll be darkskinned it's hard to find that beautiful bone structure, intelligent, smooth skin, always smell good, long hair, woman let alone in dark skin. I know I know it sounds ignorant but fkuc it.

[theTRUTH]

Originally Posted by Serpent King

^^^...Everybody is entitled to their preference. Its when you start saying that one is better than the other is when you have the problem.

I agree.

Why is it that people can say they prefer tall, skinny, short, thick, etc. with no problem. But as soon as someone says they prefer light skin, people jump out of their skin.

A preference is a preference.

[Carmelsun]

theTRUTH wrote:
I agree.
Why is it that people can say they prefer tall, skinny, short, thick, etc. with no problem. But as soon as someone says they prefer light skin, people jump out of their skin.
A preference is a preference
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I agree partially with what you said. Skin color is more personal in the fact that black people have been treated terrible because of the color of their skin. Tall and skinny people were not beat up, killed, and hung like people of color. A preference is a preference, but it's all in the way you say things. I prefer to date dark men, because I think that they are gorgeous, but I have only dated one, the rest I have dated are yellow. I like tall guys, but I have dated short ones. I love vanilla ice cream, but I do eat chocalate. But to say you won't date someone because of the color of their skin is ignorant and stupid.

[giniacuty_757]

yeah like at achool even in college we discussing sororities and stuff and the girl Shara was like I see you being a AKA not a ZETA im jsut being true" I was like whatever
color is color and I dont tihnk black folks can help their color i dont know if I wasnt half Dominican I might be darker night not be u dont know u cant help ya complexion not if u not white not white folks can help it

and I agree Caramelsun with the light skin things girl told me the only reason *****zz be up on you forreal cuz u cute and light and thats what they lie" HOW ignorant can you be maybe Im a cool female why it gotta be my hair or my color gosh its stupid I like guys in all colors PERFER MY BROTHAZ tho
but Im saying dark or light as long as she a good female i dont think fellaz should mind forreal

but like u said Caramel people do get angry when guys say or pick out lighter skin over darker m like I cant help my genes or my race ask my mother and papi on that one cuz I dont know
thats stupid color SHOULD NOT MATTER!!

[P Harrell]

I think dark females are extremely sexy....their features stand out more...light skinned females are cute....I don't have a preference for real...Whatever is in season works for me...