What is so degrading??

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by UnintentionlyMe

Well sweetie, you just can't expect many woman to drop everything to follow you. They would have to be madly in love. Literally.

Yes... I'm well aware of that... and the only madly in love that I've seen is the **** that i don't need. Cause if she tries following me to the office that ass will get SHOT.

[UnintentionlyMe]

Originally Posted by SuperFly

Yes... I'm well aware of that... and the only madly in love that I've seen is the Sh*t that i don't need. Cause if she tries following me to the office that ass will get SHOT.

Lol

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by UnintentionlyMe

Lol

Military men are the real gangstas...

[ClassyWisdom08]

Take a married Woman's advice!

Please, seek out someone who will be supportive of your goals in life. Now, that does not mean that she has to leave hers behind. But there needs to be a mutual understanding and then planning that also includes thinking about life after the wedding. Personally, I would not have married my husband if he were in the military. Why? First of all, I don't support war esp. seeing all that went on with Bush and his decision to invade Iraq. Secondly, the moves to God knows where, and the time away from family is a bit difficult to deal with esp. if you have children.

Being a good man and husband, also means that you are understanding and can be supportive with whatever your wants to accomplish. Are you ready for that? I can honestly say that most men are NOT capable of doing that because of the way society has been set up. The mindset has to change in order for any relationship to work.

Hope this helps

[demmeri]

Originally Posted by ClassyWisdom08

Take a married Woman's advice!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! ](*,)

you could have had it all! imagine a man making $45 grand a year??? imagine that? may paycheck last week was $845.96! and i just started! that could have been you!

welp....i just hope you're content and that all goes well. i'll just crawl up into a ball...

[demmeri]

but back to the topic, i've already said my opinion on this subject...

*sigh*

women just not wanting to accept thier roles in this life....that's why relationships are falling apart. but partly our fault because we've taken advantage of them and our role...

women are just hard-headed and "eve"-ing...only conservative, wise women understand how important thier role is and accept it...there's absoutely nothing degrading about it....

lemme explain this the way i learned it when i was working for walmart...

what if you walked into a store, and you had absolutely NO associates to help you? the entire store was filled with manegers, and the manegers were going around doing manegement this like filling out paperwork, and catching thieves.

you'd have no cart pushers, no cashiers, no sales floor associates....just 400 workers walking around with walkie talkies, trying to give direction and catching thieves.

although the roles have less authorative power, each is very important and a great responcibility.

i just want my future wife to be good at being a mom and housewife first....and to submit to me, and i promise i won;t lead her latina ass in the wrong direction.

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by ClassyWisdom08

Take a married Woman's advice!

Please, seek out someone who will be supportive of your goals in life. Now, that does not mean that she has to leave hers behind. But there needs to be a mutual understanding and then planning that also includes thinking about life after the wedding. Personally, I would not have married my husband if he were in the military. Why? First of all, I don't support war esp. seeing all that went on with Bush and his decision to invade Iraq. Secondly, the moves to God knows where, and the time away from family is a bit difficult to deal with esp. if you have children.

Being a good man and husband, also means that you are understanding and can be supportive with whatever your wants to accomplish. Are you ready for that? I can honestly say that most men are NOT capable of doing that because of the way society has been set up. The mindset has to change in order for any relationship to work.

Hope this helps

You make an interesting point, however all the reasons that you said you wouldn't have married your husband is the problem that I will be facing. Quite honestly, I don't mind supporting my wife in whatever she wants to do. That's what you're supposed to do as a husband. The problems comes when all hell breaks loose on the other side of the world. Or when you get stationed in Australia. Now, while I have the safety of a job that doesn't get deployed, I could very well be stationed on the other side of the world. So like I said before... what kind of woman that I would associate with in the first place (which means she's got goals in life, she wants to make something of herself, she thinks for herself) is gonna want to give up, or even put that stuff on hold just to be with some Airman? The kinda lifestyle that I'll end up having isn't conducive to my wife being able to do anything permanent. The only thing that will ber permanent is the two of us. Which means that whatever happens, wherever we go, whatever the Air Force says I have to do, at the end of the day, she's gotta be happy that she's with me. I'm not trying to be the big controlling husband, or anything like that. That's just the facts. There's no one that unselfish anymore.

Wait, wait, wait... hold up one gat damn minute...

LaTonya... your ol' bitter, curmudgeony ass is married?! I gotta shake this dude's hand... :???: