For the love of all that is holy, please explain (UPDATE)

[.HeaD.TurNer.]

the fact that she was thinking of YOU during her darkest days speaks volumes. just be patient, be understanding, and wait. The right choice will surface soon enough. Good Luck! 8)

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by HeaD_Turner

the fact that she was thinking of YOU during her darkest days speaks volumes. just be patient, be understanding, and wait. The right choice will surface soon enough. Good Luck! 8)

I've waited for two years... :roll: *holds up two fingers* That's the point of the post. I can't do this anymore. I'm tired of no knowing where I stand with her. One minute she's aloof, next she drops me a damn bone. :roll:

[Jamila iz Back!]

Ok....I decided to stop being lazy and read your post. And Im glad I did...First off, you shoudnt feel bad that you werent speaking to her and she wasnt speaking to you. You didnt know that she wasnt talking to you because of uncontrollable circumstances involving her father. You thought she was avoiding you, and you shouldnt chase after anyone tht you think is avoiding you...and I agree wholeheartedly. The fact that she IMed you tonite saying she is still thinking of you and still has the puppy you sent her, obviously shows that you meant sumthing to her. I say you should definitely give this a second chance. She may be the love of your life and you dont realize it yet. I am a firm believer in fate, and fate is bringing yall to speak again...and hopefully more than that in the future. What do you have to lose??? I have never been in love, but for someone who wants to be in love, apart of dealing with that is the possibility of heartbokeness, but that isnt a reason not to give it a chance...Life is all about risks, and this is a perfect opportunity for you to take a risk that may positively benefit you in the future. Good Luck. :wink:

[SuperFly]

Dammit... I already love her, no matter what. Not just in that sense, but just as a person. She knows that. She's known it for two years. But I don't want to get my hopes up again only to be let down again.

[.HeaD.TurNer.]

Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

But I don't want to get my hopes up again only to be let down again.

thats just a chance u gotta take homie...love's road is full of ups and downs..its just testing u to see if u really want this to work.. and there is no time table when ur dealing with love...some wait a lifetime..be lucky urs has only been 2 yrs..u gotta look at this from the postitive lite..and take that opportunity to make things better..the ball is in ur court.

[Jamila iz Back!]

Originally Posted by HeaD_Turner

thats just a chance u gotta take homie...love's road is full of ups and downs..its just testing u to see if u really want this to work.. and there is no time table when ur dealing with love...some wait a lifetime..be lucky urs has only been 2 yrs..u gotta look at this from the postitive lite..and take that opportunity to make things better..the ball is in ur court.

I couldnt have said it any better. :arrow:

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by HeaD_Turner

thats just a chance u gotta take homie...love's road is full of ups and downs..its just testing u to see if u really want this to work.. and there is no time table when ur dealing with love...some wait a lifetime..be lucky urs has only been 2 yrs..u gotta look at this from the postitive lite..and take that opportunity to make things better..the ball is in ur court.

How is it in my court? She's the one that left me hangin'. Every time that she's been down, I've been there for her. When her stupid boyfriends f*cked up I was the one that heard her complaints. Not credents that she was chasing after When her friends and family died and she felt sad it was MY shoulders that she placed all of her burdens on... Now I've offered her a chance to show her that there's something better out there and she is hesitating to take it. Not just something better, but exactly what she wants. As far as I'm concerned, the ball is in her court.