For the love of all that is holy, please explain (UPDATE)

[.HeaD.TurNer.]

Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

Now I've offered her a chance to show her that there's something better out there and she is hesitating to take it. Not just something better, but exactly what she wants.

I can see ur frustration in ur words and kno that this is a very difficult thing to accept. You feel as if she left u, so its her that needs to step up and try and gain u back. When you offered her a chance and she hesitated to take it..how can u blame her? Love is scarrrrry. To be able to take that step, ur gonna need to understand more and be less angry about it b/c all that is going to do is push her away even more, rather than make u seem like more of a safe haven. And gee, i know u both are young and to find a love like you say urs is...that is rare! Most people are still trying to be pimps and playas..rather than look 4ward to their future. Just remember the 1st thing that a person remembers is the one time when u weren't there for them..not all the times you were. So if you think its still worth ur time, then stay in her life. Even if it is at the least, a friend level.

[SuperFly]

She doesn't have anything to be afraid of, and she knows she doesn't. I dunno what her problem is... :roll:

[Slim GoodyN757]

Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

She doesn't have anything to be afraid of, and she knows she doesn't. I dunno what her problem is... :roll:

I understand where you are coming from, and the anger you have is not gonna make it any better but right now she needs you the most, and I know you don't want to get hurt but you need to call her and say: Look I'm feelin you a lot and i feel like I'm wasting my time when you hesitate to be with me. And if she is still acting retarded then just move on

[SuperFly]

I did that well before that period of time that she didn't call me. Just not in those words. But she knows... :roll:

[~*Gina*~]

Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

See... now I actually I'm coming to y'all for help and to perhaps end my bitterness for a while and I get this... :roll: I guess I'm jus' dat spesho'...

im sry lol i couldn't let that 1 go. it was too easy. let's just hug & be friends :arrow:

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by MissGina10

im sry lol i couldn't let that 1 go. it was too easy. let's just hug & be friends :arrow:

**turns around and crosses arms**

*~*HMPH!!*~* You gotta do better than that...

[~*Gina*~]

C'mon? Friends?