For the love of all that is holy, please explain (UPDATE)

[The First]

Well, well, well, if this ain't a page outta my got-damn life story....the only difference is, this girl, from what you've said seem like she's worth the effort you should go after her. Do it for the butterflies... I mean, is there anything else to do/pursue at the moment???

[shawbear08]

Hello..I really dont say to much on here but I'd figure I would say something about this topic today. :lol:

I started reading this topic last friday but i had to go ut of town so I couldnt finish it. But on sunday the same exact thing happend to me. But it was with my ec who I have not seen or talk to in Ten months. He wrote me a email and said he was going through some things that's y i aint heard from him and he tried he call but he misplaced my number. So im in the same situation ur in. kinda but would say go with ur hard and give it time God will guide u if its meant to be it will. only time will tell.

[SuperFly]

Originally Posted by V.A. Black DeV'iLL

Do it for the butterflies... I mean, is there anything else to do/pursue at the moment???

Yeah... there is... I could pursue someone that actually seems to give a damn about things between me and them. Hell... today was the first day that I've heard from her since that day! :evil: I give the **** up!!! :evil:

[Afro-American]

Originally Posted by AggieHighlander

Yeah... there is... I could pursue someone that actually seems to give a damn about things between me and them. Hell... today was the first day that I've heard from her since that day! :evil: I give the f**k up!!! :evil:

to be ummm slightly kinda positive...at least she thought of ya :arrow:

[ThatClassyGirl216]

Originally Posted by Ultra Squish

*In tears* Mannnn, go get her please...marry her or something...Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there because if you don't you're gonna always wonder what if....That really made me cry...

FOR REAL! Seriously, it sounds like this girl could be "the one" and even if she aint she still honestly impacted your life enough that it will never be the same...give her time, she will be in your life full time soon enough :wink:

[SuperFly]

Screw it. I left her a message telling her that I still care about her and that i'd like something more, but it seems that now she's avoiding the question once more. So **** it. I have other things to worry about. I'm tired of searching my heart and soul for the words to tell her that I care about her and only being stonewalled. Not only that, but I'm tired of feeling stupid for giving a **** about someone who doesn't wish to show me the same affection.

[schoolgal]

Treat her as a friend. Strictly a friend. You need to see how she feels about you. If she begans to wonder why aren't you acting like you usually do then you'll know how she really feels. Sometimes, a lot of times women don't tell you the whole story or open up completely. You dig? She may be going along with your boyfriendish treatment but not really looking for much more than friendship out of you two. Maybe she at first wanted a man but after all that with her dad she no longer wanted a man, you dig? Just as times change so do emotions. But true love always outlast a relationship. That doesn't mean that it was meant to be, it just means that it was true love. What am I saying. Your feelings may be real, and it sounds like they are, but that doesn't mean that she's the one, you dig? while you giving her so much attention and while she's iggin' you the love of your life may be passing you by. You may love her but she may not be the right one. Or it may simply not be the time for you two. Timing is everything. Maybe you two are for each other but not at this particular time. If she's the true love of our life and it's just not time for you two you may mess up the whole process, you dig? Soooo stay friends. And be strictly friends to see how she acts,let me know write back.