Okay She's BI!! Now..She's Lesbian!!No Wait She's str8?? - Page 2

IgnoranceIsBliss · #8 06-02-2004

Nope! Don't get back with her. Get a woman that is strictly for the dickly. She might up and decide she wants a woman again and I just wouldn't risk it.

dazzlin' · #9 06-03-2004

I wouldn't stick with that chick 'cause she sound like a hassle and a half. I can see being confused between two guys and not sure which one two be with 'cause both have good qualities. I'd tell you to give her some time to make up her mind. But this chick don't even know which gender she wants. That mean instead of being insecure about which guys she come in contact with, she'd have you mean muggin' every body y'all meet wonderin' if this female is about to catch yo chicks eye. that's somethin' you shouldn't even have to worry about.

ClassyWisdom08 · #10 06-04-2004

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Originally Posted by 1Fine_Iota

This experience happened to me not to long ago and all this Bisexual, lesbian topics floating around I wanted to tell you all about my experience with dating a female that changed her SEXUALLY prefence like she was changing Clothes..

Now, I was dating a girl not too long ago..She was very nice, I loved her personality and we had a lot of things in common..I could talk to this girl for hours..not to mention that she was fine as hell..She was 5'3, she had light brown skin, long pretty hair and pretty eyes..

However, the relationship started to get rocky..Rumors were floating around that this girl had a girlfriend on the side and hung out with STUDS(such as Cleo)..I didnt think much of it but I asked her about where the rumors were coming from and she came right out and told me that she was bisexual but she wanted to be with me..I was cautious but I thought she was sincere..

A week or so later she told me that she didnt want to be with me and she has declared her self 100% lesbian...I was devasted..because I really liked this girl and the warning signs never went off in my head..

Several weeks later this girl calls me crying and telling me that she was str8 and that she wanted to be with me....I told her she could go and f*ck one of her stud friends..I'm sure that was harsh but Should I have given her another chance??

No, because this girl obviously doesnt know if she wants a man or a woman.

C Diddy · #11 06-04-2004

I saw it all the time in high school...we had almost 3000 students so we had a large gay population. It was mostly freshman so I'm thinking that they thought they were going to get to high school and automatically be bombarded by all these dudes...found out that wasn't happenin and there were the gay girls waiting for them with open arms. By junior year..they were either bi or saying that they were straight again...I say they were Confused.

This girl who goes to my college has been going back and forth. She's known for being a little out there (loose <----throwback terminology) so like freshman year she was on to dudes...then towards the end of the year she was hanging with the Women's Basketball Team (if you only seen these chicks you would completely understand that something was a little suspect). Then my friend knows her and was like yeah she gay. Then word was she was engaged ....then towards the end of the year this year she was back with the Women's Basketball team.

So everybody is like is she a freak? or is she just gay?

A'Kaye47 · #12 06-13-2004

I say you give her a shot....erebody makes mistakes, only way to learn from em is if your willing to make em....besides she could give you inside tips on how to Eat JUSSSSSSST right :lol: :lol: :lol:

vanity reloaded · #13 06-13-2004

She was clearly experimenting. I am not bi/les, but I think for some people it is really a phase. I'unno and I don't want no one biting my head off for it either. I know too many people like this and usually the chics hollering about how nasty being bi/les is are the main ones getting turned out :roll:

Spelmanlady08 · #14 06-13-2004

Leave her alone, and be with somebody who you know wants to be with you. 8)