Tell me...

[NeoSoulBrotha]

Since there's been mad posts about what first attracts you to a dude, let's flip it around... instead of what first gets your attention, what keeps it? Once you meet a guy, what lets you know he's someone you would want to get to know more about?

And the other way around - what would immediately turn you off?

Just curious. Holla!

[1FocusedBruh]

**sits down**

I need to know what I'm doing wrong...

[ClassyWisdom08]

Short & Sweet

Usually, after meeting a guy...I have nothing to go off besides conversation and common interest.If he appears to be a nice guy with a sincere heart and right intentions,I would definitely want to find out more.


Turn Offs :arrow: Disrespect ,too aggressive,Pick up lines,materialistic and many more.

[dazzlin']

keep my attention: intelligence and humor, independence

lose my interest: arrogance, trifflin', moocher (I'll hold my own if you hold yours), too much of a momma's boy

[Jamila iz Back!]

Keeps my attention: as long as he can keep me laughing, respects me, knows how to have an intellectual conversation, and most importantly...he needs to understand me. If he has those simple qualities then he's a keeper.

Loses my interest: Has no goals for the future, close minded, negatively influenced by others and cant think for himself, doesnt respect my opinions, always has to be right...I cant stand a dude who is too arrogant and egotistical to admit when he is wrong.

[Slim GoodyN757]

Keep my Attention: when his breath smells good, sense of humor(this is a must) intelligent, must have goals and doing something with himself, treats his momma with the upmost respect, can listen, compassionate.

Loses my Attention: always in the mirror, stank breath, not intelligent, loser, disrespects his mother, corny, hoe, smokes or drinks too much. always thinks he is right

[tant406]

GOOD CONVERSATION AND A SENSE OF HUMOR KEEPS ME AROUND....A MESSED UP MOUTH IS ALWAYS A TURN OFF FOR ME...