Guys who want dimes, but they only a penny

Orca51 · #1 03-27-2008

ok from the guys forums, and my guy friends/ex boyfriends i've noticed that they all are searching for a dime. BUT many of the guys seaching for a dime are no more than a 5 themselves. Why do you girls think guys are like this? Do they think they look better than they do? Or are they just bold? From personal experience it seems the lower a guy is on the scale the more courage he has in approaching a girl. Then the guys that me and my friends drool over haven't EVER had a a girlfriend. What's the deal? Why all the busted dudes going for dimes, and the fine guys acting shy?

realsista4lyfe · #2 03-27-2008

I think alot of the time..guys are so focused on looks...they don't really think about personality..and alot of guys..especially in high school..are really concerned about how there friends think of a girl.. dudes that approach alot of girls like that...prolly jus wanna ****...excuse my language..but that forreal....girls on the other hand are more into personality...of cource were concerned about looks but...not as much as males are

forreal...the media may contribute to this...i mean females...especially black females..are demeaned...and degrade in the media...as sex images...as if that is our purpose...then again...i can't blaim the media...because that mind set has been like that for a minute...idk

i*heart*pie · #3 03-27-2008

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Originally Posted by realsista4lyfe

I think alot of the time..guys are so focused on looks...they don't really think about personality..and alot of guys..especially in high school..are really concerned about how there friends think of a girl.. dudes that approach alot of girls like that...prolly jus wanna ****...excuse my language..but that forreal....girls on the other hand are more into personality...of cource were concerned about looks but...not as much as males are

forreal...the media may contribute to this...i mean females...especially black females..are demeaned...and degrade in the media...as sex images...as if that is our purpose...then again...i can't blaim the media...because that mind set has been like that for a minute...idk

^^cosigns^^ Where have you been all my life...? lmao

realsista4lyfe · #4 03-27-2008

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Originally Posted by i*heart*pie

^^cosigns^^ Where have you been all my life...? lmao

lol

yungcity21144 · #5 03-30-2008

that so true by be the boldest and ugliest ones in the group

BisonBoy · #6 03-31-2008

Well uh, if you all dont mind my heterozygous XY gender phenotype in tha buildin', I have to say that for me a personality can change the way you look. And as far as the girl I'd approach, she'd probally hav to do something other than wear cute make up... Like be outgoing maybe, enjoy smiling... Iono, thats jus Bison Beezy...

TSUblueTiger · #7 03-31-2008

Ladies, I hope you don’t mind me adding to the dialogue.

Everyone has their own definition of a dime. In order to be a dime, you must possess personality and beauty. As far as the boldness of a guy, it’s all about taking chances. If a guy has a difficult time finding a lady, he has to become bold and take chances in order to find a mate. It only takes one yes to change your situation. Therefore, you have to work hard for the prize. On the contrary, if a guy is use to receiving attention from women, he is use to not working hard to find a lady. Therefore, he does not have to be aggressive. From his perspective, ladies will come to him. However, I am speaking in general terms so this does not apply to all men.