2nd Chance in the Bedroom

[smc112]

Originally Posted by Wisdom of Many Men

This forum is really humorous, in reference to the people and there commenting. I truly understand where the animosity comes from, because if a person claims to be King you are going to challenge their reign. I do accept the criticism from my piers on my grammatical mistakes. Which I hope doesn't hinder me in my future endeavors of Foreign Policy.

I wasn't making reference to your grammatical mistakes. I was referring to your mindset towards women. As someone said earlier, if you feel that most females get down with a man on the first night, you might need to change the group of females you are around or turn off the rap music!

[Wisdom of Many Men]

Originally Posted by smc112

I wasn't making reference to your grammatical mistakes. I was referring to your mindset towards women. As someone said earlier, if you feel that most females get down with a man on the first night, you might need to change the group of females you are around or turn off the rap music!

I understand your concern towards my mindset, but I'm well educated in the field of male and female interactions. My opinions are just my opinions and I refuse influenced but only educated into a new light of thinking. Because I believe nothing of what I hear and half of what I see.

All I'm saying is don't cater to one audience; tell the whole truth.

Because you said most females don't get down on the first night, maybe that "game" you was spitting didn't justify the young lady for getting to know you better.I never said all females where sluts, but there are females who want to have a good time as well. I do hang a round a lot of high-class, dimes and educated females and its no telling of who wants to do what if you don't open up your mouth.

I love black women to death;therefore, with love there is understanding. And I understand that women aren't that innocent when it pertains to these issues.

Louis Farrakhan once stated a Black Women will make a holy-man lose all his holiness.



*This is the correct way people debate, because we are both civilized and have our own opinions. Big Ups to Smc 112 for holding a superb convo.

[NeoSoulBrotha]

Originally Posted by The_Black_Chaney

After a party i was talking to a girl and we headed back to the room...and had some fun. But after we was done she seemed disappointed like a mother****er. I really didn't care to much.

But after she left she called me a chatted for a minute and i realized how much me and her have in common. That night i wasn't trying to do nothing special......So my question ladies if a guy don't put it down the first time is there a second chance.

...Now she got me worried about if i can put it down....

If she called you again afterwards, you have another chance. If she wasn't interested she would blow you off, or just act distant.

So I'm thinking she sees something in you she likes...

Aside from the debate on doing the biz on the first date... yes, you can redeem yourself. Don't act pressed, just make another date for the two of you to connect (outside of the bedroom). Let her get to know you.

[miz_diamond]

LOLZ! I had a girl friend who had a bad (quick) intimate experience with this guy. He was cute and had a great sense of humor so she went on and tried him again...... how about he did the same thing AGAIN!!!!!! I just thought that was hilarious! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[konvinceme]

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Originally Posted by Wisdom of Many Men

I understand your concern towards my mindset, but I'm well educated in the field of male and female interactions. My opinions are just my opinions and I refuse influenced but only educated into a new light of thinking. Because I believe nothing of what I hear and half of what I see.


2. All I'm saying is don't cater to one audience; tell the whole truth.


3. Because you said most females don't get down on the first night, maybe that "game" you was spitting didn't justify the young lady for getting to know you better.I never said all females where sluts, but there are females who want to have a good time as well. I do hang a round a lot of high-class, dimes and educated females and its no telling of who wants to do what if you don't open up your mouth.

I love black women to death;therefore, with love there is understanding. And I understand that women aren't that innocent when it pertains to these issues.


Louis Farrakhan once stated a Black Women will make a holy-man lose all his holiness.



*This is the correct way people debate, because we are both civilized and have our own opinions. Big Ups to Smc 112 for holding a superb convo.

1. It depends on what you are tuned into whether or not you should believe what you hear or see. You talk about about being educated but yet you neglect the cardinal rule that comes with knowledge: open your mind not to fill it with self-serving opinions but to respect others point of view as well. You dont have to agree or disagree. You should welcome influence if it is postive and proper.


2. You dont have to cater to an audience-just answer the question that is asked. Criticizing another's opinion doesnt give more merit to your opinion

3. The fact that you zoomed in on the hyper-sexual stereotype of black women rather that acknowledging that some, probably more than you think, black women defy the standard society has perpetuated is beyond me. As soon as a black man, a black woman, a black child emerges from the group of a stereotypical negro here comes negativity kicking them in the azz. Thanks for keeping "Jezebel" alive. Im just waiting see when you are going to bring "Aunt Gemima" and "The Amazon" characterization of black women back into play.

[Wisdom of Many Men]

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