Seriously-you need to address you issues because you definitely have some when it comes it comes to females.
Second, work on your analyzing skills. If you read the initial story dude hooked up with a girl at a party. He didnt find out anything about her until they converse after the hook up.
Third, upgrade the type of "chicks" that are in your circle. If all the ones you know get down and freaky with any and everybody then what does that make you.
Last, where did the topic of "admitting behind the door freakiness come from"? Like you said, the dude asked about a second chance. The females' response are more relevant-dude would not have to ask about a second chance if he made a good first overall impression. Obviously his bedroom work wasnt all that so he needs to inject some personality and character into his "game". Give a girl something else to consider if you cant give her the business. LOL