A GOOD MAN!

[BRobins84]

Why is it that women always say they looking for a good man, or a good man is hard to find. . . but when you find one you act like you don't want him??? then have the nerve to be kickin yo self after he leave.

[Astarr1]

Good Man
1. Respectful
2.God -fearing
3. Affectionate
4. Intelligent
5. Sensual
6. Creative :lol:
7. Loving

Attractive to me, clean and knows hoe to be a man with me :!: :lol:

[cutie05]

Originally Posted by GaPeAcH

A good man is a man that completes a good woman. He/She is someone that only you can recognize. When a good woman finds her good man she will know automatically that he is for her, and vice versa.

yea das how i see it also..plus if u alwayz ur keep faith in god..one day that right man will come around..i wouldnt say its simple but then i wouldnt say its all dat hard neither

[AggiePride06]

A good man knows and understands the definition of what a man is. Being male and having hair on your face or chest makes you an adult male. A good man needs to do more than go to church because it is not about being religious it is about having a relationship with God. A man must love himself first before he can dare to share himself with anyone else. He must love his mother. He must have respect for all women no matter if they don't have respect for themselves. When he truly has a relationship with God a lot of the other stuff like being honest, caring, trustworthy should fall into place. No man of God should be in a rush to have sex because sex is what defines marriage. A good man knows that all black women are queens and he understands that he should treat us as such. A good man can also admit to making mistakes and is always will to work on his short-comings.

[Miss_404]

Originally Posted by P o e t i q R e i g n

When ya think about how many men there are in the world....hell, let's just work with Black men alone...

Then eliminate the ones who...

:arrow: are homosexual...
:arrow: bisexual...
:arrow: "suspect" (if ya feelin' me)...
:arrow: in & outta prison...
:arrow: triflin'...
:arrow: cheaters/unfaithful/disloyal/untrustworthy...
:arrow: hs drop-outs...
:arrow: neva went to college (don't plan on goin'...or maybe they r, but still), not tryna do anything wit their lives, & end up livin' @ home w/ mama...
:arrow: are pessimistic & blame EVERYthing that goes wrong on EVERYone but themselves...
:arrow: don't believe in and have some type of relationship with God...
:arrow: won't grow tha HELL UP...
:arrow: have too many issues...
:arrow: are greedy and selfish...immature...inconsiderate...ridiculously jealous...clingy...unintelligent...hmm, & tha rest of tha negative qualities...
:arrow: have lack of confidence, self-esteem, common sense, and/or home-trainin'...
:arrow: have a sexually-transmitted disease...or diseases :?...
:arrow: have too much emotional (or mental :?) baggage...

oh yeah, and who are ALREADY TAKEN...

what in tha world is left???

i know! Will & Denzel :twisted: sike nah..but seriously...when ya think about it like that....can be quite depressing :?

Dang, when u think about it like that, it does sound kinda depressing. And when u factor in the ones that don't like black women n e more, :?

But a good man nowadays is very hard to find. My grandmama sized it up like this to me,
"Men are like shoes. You find the perfect pair you want, then u discover they don't fit right. So you have to break them in untill they are the perfect fit."

[BabyGyrl]

Originally Posted by JadeKiss

Hell its hard enough to find MEN now a days. Let alone a good one. I'mma have to hit you back on the def. of a GOOD man.

That's very true. And your siggy is tight!

[MEMPHIS10rattler]

over the past year or so i have realized that guys can be left feeling blank just like women feel when a guy treats them wrong. i like to think that while in college alot of the younger females(not all) aint used to havin a guy that treats em right and calls em and is there for them and tries to spend time with them so when they find one they jus assume something aint right. i aint trippin cuz i know there are alot of females that appreciate good guys like myself and all the other ones out there. keep in mind that a good man can be anyone out there, but u jus have to look past the outside and look at what he can do for you. anyway, all the good females that need a good man i ya life... dont worry, cuz he gonna come along. 1LUV and im out this thang!!!