hey i dunno what to do

toya is too cute · #1 07-05-2004

aight so here's the story....i was wit this guy for about 4 months n i really liked him n cared about him a lot...i mean we spent a lot of time together n what not...well just recently hes started actin like an asshole....so i ended up breakin it off...but the other night while we were talkin he tells me that the reason he was actin up was because while he was in college he was in love wit his girl there n would have died for her n that part of him is still there...basically he cant get over her even tho she played the **** outta him...they never talk or anything anymore but i guess the feelins are still there...ya kno his first love or whateva...well then he said that once he thinks about things n puts everything behind him he wants another chance wit me...but i wanan be wit him now ya know..i dunno if i should just fall back n stop talkin to him or what? i need some peoples opinions....thanks

Slim GoodyN757 · #2 07-05-2004

Toya, you don't have time to be waiting on some brotha to GET OVER another female. You could be doing other things. You need to tell him to grow up and let go of that girl because obviously she didn't feel the same way he felt about her or she would have still been with him and plus that gives him no reason to act like an azz to you. So let him know what the deal is and then if he still acting crazy, then let his azz go cuz you could be getting more things done with your time and have a man that wants you with no strings attached.

AggieSweetie07 · #3 07-05-2004

girl, you needs to move on...there are too many brothers out there for you to be sitting there waiting for this one to get his life together....your future husband could be the next guy you talk to...so i say have your fun while you still have the chance...tomorrow is neva guaranteed(sp)

oOoDazzlingDanceroOo · #4 07-05-2004

yup, im with what they said.

toya is too cute · #5 07-05-2004

i hear what yall are sayin thanks for respondin i dunno its just hard hm...

A'Kaye47 · #6 07-05-2004

....im sorry im in SUPER lazy mode...can I get a summary???

natalie_g · #7 07-06-2004

i think you should give him another chance cause that's the way i feel about my ex. i stil have feelings for him and every once in a while they pop up but don't wait on him forever. just do what you think is right in your heart if he's worth waiting for wait if you feel like he'll never get over her then give up only you know what your heart feels.