The Positions Manual..please help

[Guestgirl]

Hey whats up everybody, when having sex im just used to doing it missionary style...but lately my b/f is urging me 2 try new things in the bedroom. Unfortunately I dont have any experience in diff. postions. So I was wondering if yall could give me some insight ( i.e , how do u ride it or get beat from the back). I tried to do these things butit just doesnt seem 2 work right,( mainly b/c im lacking in postions) socan yall give me some advice ....alright holla !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ClassyWisdom08]

If it doesnt seem to work right then that position is not for you.You should feel as comfortable as possible.As far as the different positions go, I suggest you research on the net because different sites give good advice.Or buy a Karma Sutra book but you may not be ready for all that yet :?

[ReDD HarLeM DeViLL]

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What tha ....

Ma, here's what you do... just go with the flow. It's that simple, it's seX not rocKet science. Oh my goodness, wow... who would have thought people would need lessons :? on the basics. LooK appearently you are thinKing about this far too hard, if dude is your man then he will understand totally and will not mind how much you "Mess Up". Just consider it a learning eXperience, be open to new ideas and things ... whatever. Don't thinK, just do... if he says bend over ... I mean how hard is that?

I mean I had to help my eX learn how to ride as well, but I found out her problem was she continued to telling herself she couldn't do it... I told her if you can dance *Especially to reggae* then you can ride a dicK, it's all in how you move your body and how it feels to you. Oh yeah, note that when you are on top, YOU control the level of pleasure you recieve just in case he doesn't handle is biz.

Practice maKes perfect, so do it often!!! And after you get everthing down to where you are comfortable with it, try FreeStyling with it... add your own personal touches to what you do. Trust me, you will get your rewards and have fun doing them.

Now a few things to looK into...

BooKStores are a good start now that they have booKs on this type of stuff, my Walden BooKs store has an actual "Adult (SeX BooKs) section" where all the booKs give you actual information, tips and tricK and all that.
One booK I am after right now is called "Super SeX" I forgot why I wanted it, but it's $20 and it has ALOT of good stuff in it... even games

Oh yeah, and if you don't have the balls to go get you an actual seX booK, there is a magazine called "Cosmopolitan" which usually gives a detailed seX guide and Kama Sutra type thing in every issue, DEFINETLY worth the $4... my other girl used to get them, and they helped out lovely!!!

And last but not least... No better way to learn something than to actually see it done! Watch a good porn movie or channel, you will learn and have fun at the same time.

Have fun Ma :wink:

[TwilightZone13]

or u can just look on the internet for those little charts people be havin on their black planet pages with like 50 sex positions- experiment, do whatever as long as ur having sex in the end :wink:

[Jamila iz Back!]

As far as trying different positions and not knowing how to " do some stuff " you should feel comfortable enough with your partner where he can teach you and u catch on and are confortable with that...I mean there is nothing wrong with resorting to books and whatnot...but if you and him are having sex you should feel comfortable enough to tell him to that you are willing to try new things. You are just gonna need for him to initiate alot of it since you arent experienced like you say. Good luck. :wink:

[AggieSweetie07]

agrees to everything Redd said...just go went the flow or do some research on your own...if u don't like changing positions your man should be able to understand....y'all will work sumthin out one day...

[lostsquishy]

You be reading yo girls Cosmo's Redd.....lol.....Naw, but what he said... I love cosmo...