playettes are gonna play...then get caught

[j]

well basically i met this guy at a party three weeks ago at my friends party and we exchanged our digits but of course i had about three other guys numbers in my cell jst in case it dnt work out ...thats how i play.... now wit this guy his name is joe we hit it off every night we b talkin on da phone everythang was fine so i decided to stop callin the other guys cuz i thought i was ready for a steady relationship but after we had our first date...boom.... all them guys called bac i told one of them(the one i knew the longest) about joe and he was "heartbroken" but he stopped callin me then i was on the metro to meet up with joe again and yet another one of my guys called(now he hadnt called me in three weeks) and he told me he was in atl thats y he couldnt call me but i didnt tell him about joe cuz i was goin back to my old ways....jump to the next day i met this fine guy at a store so of course i had to play and get his # but then that night i was takin to joe and then he said that he loved me adored me and yada yada yada....of course i didnt want to say anythin cuz thats how i am...jump to last nite i was talkin to joe as usual next thing i no i call him chris......u woulda thought i killed his momma all hell broke loose he wasnt sayin the nice thangs anymore but tryin to make me fee like shyt(wich i understand) he was makin the harshest comments ever but i was suckin it up cuz i knew i put myself in that predicament after he asked me if i would react the same i wanted to say hell naw but i said yea...in my opinion its not sucha big deal if i called him another name at least i wasnt havin sex with him and screamin out some1 elses name but he made this a big scandal but finally my sista saved me by havin a bad dream so i had to make her feel betta so now i no that i lost a good man a very good man but i cant turn back time so thats my story how i played and got caught............

[chrittypie]

Originally Posted by j

well basically i met this guy at a party three weeks ago at my friends party and we exchanged our digits but of course i had about three other guys numbers in my cell jst in case it dnt work out ...thats how i play.... now wit this guy his name is joe we hit it off every night we b talkin on da phone everythang was fine so i decided to stop callin the other guys cuz i thought i was ready for a steady relationship but after we had our first date...boom.... all them guys called bac i told one of them(the one i knew the longest) about joe and he was "heartbroken" but he stopped callin me then i was on the metro to meet up with joe again and yet another one of my guys called(now he hadnt called me in three weeks) and he told me he was in atl thats y he couldnt call me but i didnt tell him about joe cuz i was goin back to my old ways....jump to the next day i met this fine guy at a store so of course i had to play and get his # but then that night i was takin to joe and then he said that he loved me adored me and yada yada yada....of course i didnt want to say anythin cuz thats how i am...jump to last nite i was talkin to joe as usual next thing i no i call him chris......u woulda thought i killed his momma all hell broke loose he wasnt sayin the nice thangs anymore but tryin to make me fee like shyt(wich i understand) he was makin the harshest comments ever but i was suckin it up cuz i knew i put myself in that predicament after he asked me if i would react the same i wanted to say hell naw but i said yea...in my opinion its not sucha big deal if i called him another name at least i wasnt havin sex with him and screamin out some1 elses name but he made this a big scandal but finally my sista saved me by havin a bad dream so i had to make her feel betta so now i no that i lost a good man a very good man but i cant turn back time so thats my story how i played and got caught............

damn girl i feel you...believe me, its like deja vu

[EkWoah]

never say somebodys name unless its absolutely necessary, girl

[~Q*Killa~]

I think that's a lil harsh buuut maybe cuz I'm just scatter brained and forget people's name all the time. Hell I forget my email addy all the time and it's nothin but my first and middle name. But, I guess. I mean I've done it before but nobody ever got that upset. Maybe it's because I was dealin with a Shon and a Shaun and a Tae who's middle name was Sean all at the same time and it really didnt matter..... :arrow:

[strawberryz04]

dagg. i know how u definitely feelin on this One. and it's like as soon as u ready to cut all of the otha people loose and get serious, somethin happenz to mess it up. I know he was pissed, even thougH u onLy called him that on the pHone. i hate that..when it's not even like u called him that durin a serious situation. I understand he's hurt, but it's only been three weeks so he needs to calm down. but i feel u should have turned in ya playa cards if you thought he was fa real about being true to u and making u his gyrl.

[j]

he finally called me back last nite but shyt wasnt the same no more we had long pauses and everything nice i was tryin to say he thought i was talkin bout that chris guy i asked him to drop it but he wouldnt....b4 all this happened i always used to ask him dumb questions like u no who i love right and my answer would always b me.....but last nite he wasnt playin along and he answered chris that shyt got me so pissed.......i asked him y he was so distant he didnt answer.....every question i asked him he either didnt answer or jst ignored it so i stopped talking then he asked me y i stopped talkin i told him and he jst said..oh....for an hour things were like thet were but then i asked him to finish this phrase that he was tryin to tell me since sat and he jst said he doesn tell that phrase jst to any1 so that was a smack in my face then he started on the name thing again and e told me how i disrespected him and shyt i was like you talkin to a grl that forgets her own name time to time its not my fault i jumble names all the time
jump to the next hour we were talkin bout the day we first met(actually he dnt remember nuttin) and he was like do u think it was a coincidence that we met i was like no e was like o then i asked him if he was happy that he met me and he responded by sayin....i dnt no anymore....another blow to my face finally around 3:40 am he got tired of talkin to me and went to sleep alls i no is if he keeps on actin like this i'll jst be his friend and move on cuz this shyt is annoyin....

[truthBtold]

Originally Posted by strawberryz04

dagg. i know how u definitely feelin on this One. and it's like as soon as u ready to cut all of the otha people loose and get serious, somethin happenz to mess it up.

OMG yes, this kinda happened to me too, I was talking 2 dudes at the same time because i was trying to see which one was gonna get serious, and when i finally chose which one i reallyy wanted to be with, it got messed up because they knew each other (thats where i messed up), so guy 1 was telling guy 2 about how we were supposed to hang out the next day. but i had already decided to just be friends with guy 1 , so when i called guy 2 he was like "what are u supposed to be doing today?" like he knew i was supposed to kick it with the other guy, but i just told him like "oh well i was gonna kick it with blah blah but i dont want to" but even though i was honset with him i think that was the beginning of the end, caz he got hurt. But im not understanding because it was still the beginning stages of the relationship, but i cant talk caz i probable would have been mad if it had been me.