I'm tired of being hurt :(

BabyGyrl · #1 07-15-2004

Well, I was basically talking to this guy all school year. Everything was cool the summer before I went back to Hampton. We even said we'd take it to the next level when I came home for a break, but then things got weird. We'd argue all the time, but whenever I came back home (BTW: he goes to Georgia tech in Atlanta, so it was a LD thing) things were better again. Now when I came home back in May for the summer, things were okay...at least I thought they were. After we saw each other, two weeks go by and to make a long story short, he met some girl or whatever that he was introduced to by one of his roommates during those weeks. Now, me and him were in this pseudo relationship for almost a year, but a month after things end between us, he makes the girl his girlfriend!
It's been about two months since that all went down and I'm getting over it as each day goes by, but the hurt is still there. I was really good to that boy, even while I was ten hours away at Hampton. I feel like I wasted my time and that I am in love with someone who wants someone else. It hurts, but.....I dunno. I just feel stupid.
I just want someone I can truly vibe with and who will want to be with me and only me. I'm tired of getting hurt.

Anyone ever been in a situation like this or something similar? What are some of yall's advice?

lostsquishy · #2 07-15-2004

GO OUT WITH UR GIRLS AND FORGET ABOUT IT....
I was stuck on this one guy all first semester and everybody just knew that this was the one...he claimed though that he couldn't spend a whole lot of time with me though cause he worked a lot and went to school...so I get home from Christmas break to find out that nig was ENGAGED....
Grrrrr.....
So, I went out, and got some dick...
and then I met my boyfriend...
and then ole dude be callin me askin me to come over... :roll: Asshole.... :x

BabyGyrl · #3 07-15-2004

^^^ You know what? Last Friday the dude called me, but I didn't pick up my phone cuz I didn't wanna talk to him. I found out this past Monday that he was calling me to tell me that he had the house to himself (he shares a house with three roommates) and wanted me to come over so we could chill and have sex!!!!! WTF!!!!!???? :evil:

MzHowardU07 · #4 07-15-2004

Girl, I feel your pain. I have been in a situation similar to that. My senior year in high school I was going with a guy who I had met through a friend. We both seemed to really be feeling each other, however we lived an hour away. Although we were alittle distance, we decided to make it work. Later on in the relationship, he told me that he was going into the Airforce....I was sad, but I told him I would stay with him no matter what. He said the same thing and I thought he was sincere. A couple of weeks later, he tells me that he wanted to end everything because "it would hurt [him] too much if he couldn't see me on a regular basis, but [he] loved me with all [his] heart." Of course, I believed this all, however the truth was, he had gotten another girl, a friend of his, who was also going into the Airforce. I was so hurt after I found this out that I cried for weeks. I thought I loved him and I was sure he loved me, but I was proved wrong. I just knew I would never fiind anyone like him, but I actually found someone better. Who treats me right. So my advice to you, would be just to keep your head up. There are more fish in the sea and when the right guy comes along you will know. Good Lick and keep us updated!

eNtice · #5 07-15-2004

Awww Nikia...I love u girl!!! I see I'm gonna have to make another trip to Atl to chill with u! U and him and me and "the ex"....i feel u 100%. Read my quote girl...time is the only thing that will heal that wound. Every little thing reminds me of him...from songs on the radio, to tv shows, to words and places....everywhere I turn reminders of him are there. You're just gonna have to rely on your girls to see u through it...and chill! There is someone worthy of u....we just gotta get rid of his girlfriend....lol...u know who I'm talking about! :lol: Luv u girl!!! Keep smiling!

sexyazzfemale24 · #6 07-15-2004

AWWW, to be young and in love!!! In a way, going through situations like this with the opposite sex makes you stronger, because as you get older you can reflect back on these "realtionships" and know not to make the same mistake twice. Take it as a "lesson learned".

Jamila iz Back! · #7 07-15-2004

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Originally Posted by sexyazzfemale24

AWWW, to be young and in love!!! In a way, going through situations like this with the opposite sex makes you stronger, because as you get older you can reflect back on these "realtionships" and know not to make the same mistake twice. Take it as a "lesson learned".

cosigns...we are too young to be stressisn about dudes like that. Dont always look for a serious relationship. Let it happens if it happens. And if it doesnt right away it will be aight. You just gotta worry about you and live your life. A great guy will come when you least expect him too.