OOOHH NOoo!

DEEliciouS · #1 07-21-2004

What if you got pregnant right now at this present time in ur life....what would u do? Would u get an abortion? Keep it? COntinue and/or go off to school? Give it up for adoption? K.I.D.S. is real, and so many people is gettin knocked up-its like an epidemic or somethin....and im sure u all know or see around you peeps u graduated with and now they "mommy", but what if that became you...what would u do? :? (i'll state my answer later :wink: )

and sorry if this has been asked already

19OesAggie20 · #2 07-21-2004

I'll put it like this, u can NEVER really say what u would do in a situation, til u've been put in that situation. I've never been pregnant and right now is NOT the time. I'm starting to get established on my own.
2 jobs, my own place, my own car.... If that hit me right now, I can't say 100% that I'd keep the baby. I'm not in the position to give that child the best of me yet.

jadekiss · #3 07-21-2004

Questions like that scare me becasue I know in the point in my life, although I am mature enough to take care of my baby, am I in a financially secure point to provide for my baby? Of course, I would get help from my man, because I know he is a good man. We've already discussed the consequences of having sex...get pregnant...get married... no ifs ands or buts...

demmeri · #4 07-21-2004

you fuk up...

not a typo by the way, you just fuk up... 8) :arrow:

Its_like_candie · #5 07-21-2004

I would be scared but i would keep my baby. I've had soo many friends that got pregnant during high school...and they aborted their baby. And it still haunts them til this day. So i would keep my unborn child! Even though i think it would be hard to take care of a child. Especially cause i struggle wit takin care of myself. SO that would be very hard for me...i need to mature more! AND GAIN PATIENCE!

Sweet_Girl · #6 07-21-2004

I see it like this, if I got pregnant I would keep my child because I would except responsibility for what I did. I figure if I am not ready to have a child than I should be more careful. Something like that should never be taken likely and even if I had a bright future ahead I would just have to work even harder along the way just to make my goals and dreams. Anyhow I know that is not going to happen because when I hvae children I am definately going to be married.

DEEliciouS · #7 07-21-2004

Ok...if i got pregnant right now (God forbid) i would have to keep the baby....even though i have one parent who told me if i were in that situation to get an abortion...and another telling me to take any consequences that come along with having sex. So i know it would be hard on my family cuz i dont even know if both my parents would support me (emotionally that is-cuz i know they aint payin for shyt) that much. But me and my bf would work through it, at first he was like abortion-but i had to tell him that's killing ur kid....i have seen what abortion does to you-it haunts u for life, and that something i dont want to go through. Yea my life will change, drastically-but i think its all worth it.....like my mama said "You grown enough to open ur legs....you grown enough to be called mommy".