Every right in a man except that ONE thing...

Hornet_Psi · #1 07-24-2004

So, check the scenario:

You first meet a man, and on the first date his appearance was stunning, he spoke proper grammar, was extremly chivirous, the whole NINE! I mean, you two really hit it off, and he even dropped you off early so you could get some rest. (Ya know, he said he didn't wanna keep you out all night :wink

So, you start to date more often, he only gets better at his demeanor towards you. The feelings you have for him grows and grows, and vice-versa. Love eventually makes its way into the relationship you now share, and life couldn't be better. He treats you like a queen. Everything between you two is PERFECT.....except one thing....

His sex game is horrible. And we're not just talking the "One minute man" stuff, either. Foreplay to him is a foreign concept altogether. You two tried to work at it, bought toys, did some kinky stuff to try to breathe life into it, and even seeked a sex counsler (they do exist) for help....all to no avail.

But as time goes on, the bad "bedroom" antics are still covered up by everything else. Then, one day, he asks for your hand in marriage.

My question to the ladies is: What would you do? Would you marry him, knowing that the intimacy might NEVER get better....

OR

Would you skip out on him, and possibly the best man you might ever cross paths with?

Is sex that important in a relationship? In a marriage? You make the call....

Poody · #2 07-24-2004

hell naw i wouldn't leave him.......over some sex.......hell naw

Slim GoodyN757 · #3 07-24-2004

No i wouldn't leave ma man if the sex was horrible. If he is treating me like a queen and doing all the right things then there is no reason for me to leave him. Sex is important in a relationship but love is more important and there are many guys out in the world that have a bangin sex game but suck in relationships. Who am i gonna talk to ??
His dick?? Ummmmmmmm I don't think so :roll:

And even if his sex sucked, over time it should get a little better. Noone is born knowing how to do it the correct way and everyone is different and has their own style so the more he is getting the booty from his wife the better he should get ok im sick of typiing :arrow:

jadekiss · #4 07-24-2004

HELL NAW. That don't even make good sense. Even if it was the worst in the world...I would still have my :twisted: vibrator! :twisted: After I knock back a couple of 'O' either by myself or with his help :twisted: I'mma still need my strong king to be my best freind and companion. Sex will NEVER be that important.

keke1116 · #5 07-24-2004

Quote:

Originally Posted by Slim GoodyN757

No i wouldn't leave ma man if the sex was horrible. If he is treating me like a queen and doing all the right things then there is no reason for me to leave him. Sex is important in a relationship but love is more important and there are many guys out in the world that have a bangin sex game but suck in relationships. Who am i gonna talk to ??
His dick?? Ummmmmmmm I don't think so :roll:

And even if his sex sucked, over time it should get a little better. Noone is born knowing how to do it the correct way and everyone is different and has their own style so the more he is getting the booty from his wife the better he should get ok im sick of typiing :arrow:

LOL

COSIGNS

AggieSweetie07 · #6 07-24-2004

Quote:

Originally Posted by Slim GoodyN757

No i wouldn't leave ma man if the sex was horrible. If he is treating me like a queen and doing all the right things then there is no reason for me to leave him. Sex is important in a relationship but love is more important and there are many guys out in the world that have a bangin sex game but suck in relationships. Who am i gonna talk to ??
His dick?? Ummmmmmmm I don't think so :roll:

And even if his sex sucked, over time it should get a little better. Noone is born knowing how to do it the correct way and everyone is different and has their own style so the more he is getting the booty from his wife the better he should get ok :arrow:

cosigns...

eNtice · #7 07-25-2004

Regardless of how bad the sex may be...the "love factor" should kick in and make it better! I've been in a similar situation before, and sadly enough I just made it priority to keep him happy in the bedroom b/c he kept me happy in every other aspect of the relationship. I can sacrifice a few wild nights for a loving relationship...and besides, everyone can be taught some new tricks! You don't have to give up on him. Make him watch some pornos or something!