VIRGINITY

AfroPoeticSista · #1 08-04-2003

I'm a virgin and plan on staying that way until marriage(in ohio we call it "Claimin' tha V" 8) ). Are there any others in this forum who plan on waiting? And why is it that when a femalesleeps around she is called a "ho", but when a malesleeps around, he gets madd status around his boys? To me, who's the stronger man, the one who has patience and self-control, or the one who gives in to everything with a womb who passes his way :?: Hit me back.

AJ_Kisses · #2 08-04-2003

hey gurl i'm savin myself too! i ain't in no hurry to give my goods away. i'm also glad to know that i'm not the only one here who feels the same way.
and for the people who call promiscuous females "hoes" and congratulates a male for being the same way, i say " forget em'" as long as u do what u gotta do and keep ya legs closed, u won't have to worry about it.

Chyna · #3 08-05-2003

hey yall....i might as well join the club cause i am also saving myself for marriage! Over the past few years I been through some rough times with guys and also my self-esteem. I did lose my virginity at 15 but now at 18 yrs. old i have made in my mind that my virginity was the most precious thing along with life that God could have ever given a man/woman. To give away to someone other than your husband/wife is something that is not honorable in God's eyes but at one point i felt bad but God's grace and mercy kept me and i now know that i can start over new and wait for that special someonne. And i am proud to say that to this day it has been a year and one month and i'm still waiting. 8)
God Bless you girls who still have yours and to those girls who are being called hoes for what they do....My prayer is that one day ur change will come
and for the guys who think that sexing many different girls make u a man and what not...My prayer is that ur change will come too.

SkegeeDyme08 · #4 08-06-2003

Well, I guess that I am the 4th one in this club because I am still a virgin to. I mean I want to save myself for marriage because I think like this: Boys these days want to hit it and quit you, but I feel that if you are married you are alright. Plus I do not have time to be nobody's momma now because I would like to get my college education and a good job before I have kids. Plus, my virginity is just something special to me. I am 17 and still have mine.

keezi · #5 08-06-2003

Well im guess im number five in this group

. Im saving myself because i've always been taught that that's the best way to go. And i know that if i did lose my virginity i would greatly dissapoint my parents and i can't live with that. It would be hard for me to keep it a secret but telling would be even harder so the way i see it just don't do anything and there will me no inner struggle. Also im tryin to do whats in God's will and sex before marriage isn't so im savin that for my husband. :lol:

|*Orange Moon*| · #6 08-06-2003

lol this could be link a sorority with line numbers and all. lol
but im #6. with no profound message just echoing what everyone else has said.

Thinline · #7 08-06-2003

look what you miss'en :P