i am SO tired of hearin' this cop-out....

P o e t i q R e i g n · #1 07-05-2004

aiight, somethin' else we were talkin' about last night....

how many children we want....

& he was like he wants 3....all boys...no girls...

his reason? 'cause females go through too much in life AND because he's come to see that women are hard to live with after age 13 :roll:...

okay, 1st of all...by him saying we go through a lot...I'll give him that...'cause it's true...we do....guys do too, but he said somethin' I had never thought about like that....he was like, females get b/s from both sides (both genders)...

guys' biggest issues in life are females....they might get hated on by other dudes, but not NEARLY as much as females hate on other females....PLUS how much females gotta go thru with dudes....

i was like, yeah that's true...

but i just really hate it when i hear someone say they don't want a certain gender for kids....& it's ALWAYS not wantin' daughters...i've heard so many females say they don't want any girls - just boys...'cause girls have too many issues, have to experience too much pain, or whatEVa...& just blah blah blah...

i told the friend i was talkin' to last night that watch he mess around & have 3 girls, lol....& had me laughin'....but @ the same time SURRiously disturbed, lol...when he was talkin' about some...if the first child is a girl, he's gonna just stop, lmao...i was like WTF?!?!? then he said if the first is a boy & the 2nd's a girl, he'll stop there :roll:...i was like damn...DAMN shame...

i hope none of u r like this....but anyway, jus' had ta vent real quick :arrow:

AggieWarrior · #2 07-05-2004

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PimpTight™ · #3 07-05-2004

My boy is like that, "I ain't havin' no girls". Yea, like he has a damn choice. But I always laugh at him and tell him that guy is gonna give hime 3 FIONE-ASS daughters as a sort of payback. Because of the fact that he's Hoe. A Plain and simple Male-Ho in every sense of the word.

So God is gonna make him experiance every father's worst nightmare. Knowin' that somebody is waxin' yo little girl's ass.

me, I don't really care cuz I know I'm gonna be a strict parent anyways. So I really don't care if I have boys or girls. Cuz even if I have 4 girls and 1 boy, the boy is still getting my name.

End.Of.Discussion

P o e t i q R e i g n · #4 07-05-2004

lol, i feel u, Pimp...thas what i told him...not 2 that extent tho, lol...but jus said that he's gonna end up with three daughters....

but yeah...that whole concept of trying to have all of one gender for whatever RETARDED reason is just that - RETARDED...

i mean, regardless of whether you have sons or daughters, you're gonna have children with different issues and who goes through different phases growing up, PERIOD....EVERYONE has problems...

you just have to have faith in yourself as a person and in God that you'll raise them the right way and pray that they turn out right...

but really...imagine if everyone had that "all men or none" mentality when it came to baby-making...& actually got their WISH...there'd be LESS AND LESS (if ANY) women...now we don't want that...do we...

...i don't know which is worse - someone wantin' all children of one gender or Blacks not wanting their children to turn out "too light" or "too dark" :roll:...it's all ridiculous, man - just wish them HEALTHY, and END IT.

& DWAYNE...lol...maybe i do need one...but u know how i am...loving debate, discussion, & whatnot....i like feedback....if i wanted to type to myself, i'd go to Microsoft Word & get rollin'

AggieWarrior · #5 07-05-2004

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Originally Posted by P o e t i q R e i g n

lol, i feel u, Pimp...thas what i told him...not 2 that extent tho, lol...but jus said that he's gonna end up with three daughters....

but yeah...that whole concept of trying to have all of one gender for whatever RETARDED reason is just that - RETARDED...

i mean, regardless of whether you have sons or daughters, you're gonna have children with different issues and who goes through different phases growing up, PERIOD....EVERYONE has problems...

you just have to have faith in yourself as a person and in God that you'll raise them the right way and pray that they turn out right...

but really...imagine if everyone had that "all men or none" mentality when it came to baby-making...& actually got their WISH...there'd be LESS AND LESS (if ANY) women...now we don't want that...do we...

...i don't know which is worse - someone wantin' all children of one gender or Blacks not wanting their children to turn out "too light" or "too dark" :roll:...it's all ridiculous, man - just wish them HEALTHY, and END IT.

& DWAYNE...lol...maybe i do need one...but u know how i am...loving debate, discussion, & whatnot....i like feedback....if i wanted to type to myself, i'd go to Microsoft Word & get rollin'

boooooooooooooooooooo

but anyways, i'm tired of girls sayin i don't want a daughter, y'all should be happy with whatever you get.... be blessed... a child is a blessing... :arrow:

P o e t i q R e i g n · #6 07-05-2004

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Originally Posted by P o e t i q R e i g n

lol, i feel u, Pimp...thas what i told him...not 2 that extent tho, lol...but jus said that he's gonna end up with three daughters....

but yeah...that whole concept of trying to have all of one gender for whatever RETARDED reason is just that - RETARDED...

i mean, regardless of whether you have sons or daughters, you're gonna have children with different issues and who goes through different phases growing up, PERIOD....EVERYONE has problems...

you just have to have faith in yourself as a person and in God that you'll raise them the right way and pray that they turn out right...

but really...imagine if everyone had that "all men or none" mentality when it came to baby-making...& actually got their WISH...there'd be LESS AND LESS (if ANY) women...now we don't want that...do we...

...i don't know which is worse - someone wantin' all children of one gender or Blacks not wanting their children to turn out "too light" or "too dark" :roll:...it's all ridiculous, man - just wish them HEALTHY, and END IT.

& DWAYNE...lol...maybe i do need one...but u know how i am...loving debate, discussion, & whatnot....i like feedback....if i wanted to type to myself, i'd go to Microsoft Word & get rollin'

boooooooooooooooooooo

but anyways, i'm tired of girls sayin i don't want a daughter, y'all should be happy with whatever you get.... be blessed... a child is a blessing... :arrow:

f'sho :arrow:

Jamila iz Back! · #7 07-05-2004

I guess Im the only one feelin ol dude...I think he is being a bit extreme when saying he wants all three boys and if his first child is a girl he is gonna stop there...but for me I PLAN ON HAVING ONLY ONE CHILDI want a daughter but at the same time, I REALLY dont...just cause I know how we females are, and we are some of the moodiest and overlyemotional creatures on earth. And on top of that, I know how I was growing up and I know some of the things I have done...And my mother thinks I am this oh so innocent young woman, when she really doesnt know sh*t about who I am and the things I have experienced. Its karma, and I know if I have a daughter, she will prolly be two times worse than I was....and I dont even wanna imagine that cause she is gonna be so good at covering it up. The same way I am now...But whatever God gives me I will be satisfied with....but I want a very small family...it may sound selfsih and whatnot...but apart of me doesnt even want a child. I just want a husband and a career...but I do wanna experience motherhood, so I am going to have my one and ONLY eventually...and I wanna be able to spoil my child and do motherly things sooo yeah...

But back to the topic at hand cause I started rambling about other things...I feel where dude is coming from a 100%, its just not THAT serious to me as he is making it...