WHY DO SOME FEMALEZ GOTTA BE LIKE THAT...

[P o e t i q R e i g n]

Ya'll know what is frustratin' as hell...

Okay...there's this girl @ work who 4 all the days of training, we sat by each other. She was mad cool, we conversed & whatnot...come 2 find out, we went 2 the same middle school 4 my 7th grade year, her 8th...

Aiight, so she was nice & friendly...she had this homegirl who was also trainin' w/ us...but wasn't sittin' beside or even near her for the majority of the training...

But during the breaks - whenever they'd get to talk - & ever since, seems like her homegirl be givin' me the EVIL eye, right...

& i'm like WTH?! i mean, okay...if she just has that "mean @$$/attitude" expression on her face by nature ('cuz I know people who just look mean as hell that when they're not laughing or whateva)...but there is ALSO the chance that she is really trippin' in her head that me & her homegurl were just being cool towardz each other - not tight or even close...just that we speak when we see each other...ya know, CORDIAL..

but i HATE when females think u're try steal, step in on, or WHATEVA, their friendships w/ other females...

i REALLY experienced this ish mainly back in tha 1st semester of my freshman year....i'm a naturally friendly person, y'know...i looove meetin' new people - male AND female....Black, White, Hispanic; young, old; WHATEVA...i can always use a new friend and/or acquaintance...i mean, thas just how i AM...

& I remember during that period, I'd just become cool w/ different females...but there was always that one homegurl they were MAD cool w/ (maybe a best friend from high school...or even their roommate they just met when they got 2 school) who would act shady, sometimes rude, & just DUMB-actin'...wheneva I'd chill w/ them 2gether...

just don't understand why some femalez gotta be like that....c, thas why i luv havin' male acquaintances....don't gotta deal w/ that petty CRAP w/ dudez :roll:

[Jamila iz Back!]

lol...I know what you mean....I remember back in middle school there were 2 best friends...well myself and one of the best friends were starting to become cool and hanging out more...Yet she wasnt neglecting her other friend at all, she just wasnt with her ALL the time like she was b4...anyway her friend came up to both of us during recess crying sayin since her best friend started hanging out with me she doesnt ever chill with her like she used too...and blah blah blah. So I was like I didnt know I was " stealin her from you. " Her friend of course thought she was bing ridiculous about the situation its just the point of me" takinge her best friend away " as she called it...lol...WHATEVER..so I understand what you mean. Females in general tend to be very territorial when it comes to relationships with men, and just their homegirls...We dont like a bit of attention off us and we sure as hell dont like to share it...So yeah the problem definitely lies within us...but I am closer to my homeboys anyway and they dont trip off stuff like that so I dont even care about it....

[1st Born Second]

stuff like that happen all the time....i'm like you jameya...i'm real friendly...folk be thinkin 'she ain't finna get my b/f'...and i'm like i could really give a RAT'S ASS about your b/f...i'm just showing a lil southern hospitality

[EkWoah]

sorry but i only read what was in bold, so i just gotta say cosign

[*J.O.*]

Another chapter in the ununderstandable book on the species known as females

[AggieSweetie07]

unfortunately that's just how alot females are, that's why i ain't got time for them, i'd rather chill with a dude over a female anyday, unless its my best friend or sumthin like that... :arrow:

[P o e t i q R e i g n]

Originally Posted by * $ JaMila $ *

lol...I know what you mean....I remember back in middle school there were 2 best friends...well myself and one of the best friends were starting to become cool and hanging out more...Yet she wasnt neglecting her other friend at all, she just wasnt with her ALL the time like she was b4...anyway her friend came up to both of us during recess crying sayin since her best friend started hanging out with me she doesnt ever chill with her like she used too...and blah blah blah. So I was like I didnt know I was " stealin her from you. " Her friend of course thought she was bing ridiculous about the situation its just the point of me" takinge her best friend away " as she called it...lol...WHATEVER..so I understand what you mean. Females in general tend to be very territorial when it comes to relationships with men, and just their homegirls...We dont like a bit of attention off us and we sure as hell dont like to share it...So yeah the problem definitely lies within us...but I am closer to my homeboys anyway and they dont trip off stuff like that so I dont even care about it....

i feel ya...

i mean, i understand females tend to be territorial, but...

man, it's just ridiculous...

like u said in ya reply, the chica u became cool w/ wasn't by any means neglecting the female she was cool w/ be4 u....they might not've spent every waking moment 2gether like be4...the point is, she was givin' both of u her time, right?

& even if all three of ya'll were 2 chill together...i know some females who act like not even THAT is good enough? like they gotta have the chick all to themself...i mean, IT JUST AIN'T THAT SERIOUS.

Originally Posted by Mrs. Jackie CHAN 2 U

stuff like that happen all the time....i'm like you jameya...i'm real friendly...folk be thinkin 'she ain't finna get my b/f'...and i'm like i could really give a RAT'S ASS about your b/f...i'm just showing a lil southern hospitality

lol....i definitely feel u on that...& i agree...unless ya boyfriend is a triflin' @$$, u have VALID REASON not 2 trust him around other females, &/or tha female or femalez he hangs around u know r always tryna hit on him (& r SERIOUS ABOUT IT)...some females need to be more secure about their relationships...

but @ the same time...i could moreso see a female trippin' in her head about other females spendin' time w/ her bf than I could see her trippin' 'cause another (HETEROSEXUAL) female is spendin' time w/ her homegurl...that is just so damn silly to me...

i mean...i have my homegurlz who i've been tight w/ 4 however long about of time...& they have their friends who I'm not as cool w/, but have met @ some point or another....& when I met them, I try to act just as friendly as if I were just meeting them for the 1st time, by myself...

it's just about being sensible....and esPECially about NOT BEING SELFISH...

as long as ya homegurl just ain't actin' str8 shady towards u, now that she has a new friend...u will be ALRIGHT.

Originally Posted by AggieSweetie07

unfortunately that's just how alot females are, that's why i ain't got time for them, i'd rather chill with a dude over a female anyday, unless its my best friend or sumthin like that... :arrow:

yup, yup...

that "simple mind" guys have really pays off, when it comes to friendship



lol JUST PLAYIN', FELLAZ...ya might ain't that simple...i guess :twisted:

Originally Posted by *J.O.*

Another chapter in the ununderstandable book on the species known as females

"ununderstandable"?

*runs to her Webster's to see if that word exists*

hmmm...well, if what ya said is true, I guess there's no "understandable" human species, 'cause ya'll definitely ain't it either :P