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I'm about to go to Howard in the fall 8) and it will be a totally new environment for me. From what I hear about college, there are lot of STDs and heartbreak going around. Since I am a virgin and freshmen girls seem to be the target of sex when they first get there, should I just avoid trying to get to know a person in the hopes of a relationship, which could lead to sex? Also, should i avoid sex altogether?
My advice is to go slow when you get to college. Take your time and get to know people very well. Sex will always be there down the road. Be proud of yourself; there is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
I stand with you girl. I'm also a virgin, and if you can make it this far, you can make it through college. Granted, college is a completely different world than high school, but it's worth it not to fall linto those college cliches. Just stay prayed up, strong, and true to your values and your heart. - Neichelle-
AVOID SEX ALL TOGETHER :!: Like they said, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being a virgin. I am 20 and a male and not shame to admit that I am a virgin. I would rather proudly admit that I was a virgin than to shamefully admit I have an STD or don't know whether or not a kid is mine. Enjoy college and make the best of it. The years at college (Especially Howard, I'm a product of a Howard Graduate) will be the best years of your life. Be you & Never be ashame or afraid to be who you are regardless to what people may think :wink: . Sex will come when it's time, but DON'T go looking for it.
Much Love and All Respect,
Jerry "Omaurie"
Jackson State University
girl, imma tell u like this. keep them legs crossed in college. i wish i could of said that i did in high school but i didnt, and im telling you from my point of view. virginity is everything. you keep it until you meet that right guy (husband) cause sex is a difficult task. you eint missin noin either if you dont have sex. the average guy dont last too long, and most of the time u just are laying there wondering why the hell you doin the ****. but save your sex for the one you love. sex with love is very passionate and you will not regret it. well girl let the force be with you. and stay a virgin
p.s. the safest sex is no sex. 8)
In one of my classes today, a professor (a sociologist) gave a lecture on AIDS, and he said the largest group of HIV victims are African Americans. He also said for every five HBCU students, one of them has AIDS :cry: If you decide to have sex be careful. I recommend abstinence.
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Psalm 133:1-- How good and pleasant it is for brethren to dwell in unity.
Stop scaring people's kids up with these horrific stories. College life is about sex. Everything you do will be related to sex in some way. For example...you and a cute guy u like are studying. He doesn't know you are a virgin so he tries to run game in hopes of screwing you. In the end, with your feelings for him and his aggressiveness, you may end up giving in because you know that wthat you won't do some other chick will. Be a virgin and stand proud to say you are but from experience, staying a virgin in college, as well as high school, is the hardest thing one can do. Like I said, sex is closely related to everything you do from the time you step on any college campus until the time you graduate. Your best bet is to hang with people who respect the fact that you are a virgin and stray away from the known whores and d**k slingers. If a person with a higher classification tries to holler at you, its related to something sexual, preferably oral sex. If a older female tells you that a male you are hollering at aint no good, keep that in mind because 9 times out of 10 she is right. If a dude tells you that a girl is "straight mut action", don't go believing what he says totally but keep it in mind. 9 times out of ten males be over-exagerating about girls being sluts. This is college - an opening to the real world. Come ready to learn and go through many lessons while here. Sex is just th main lesson learned, whether you are a virgin or not! :mrgreen:
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Should I avoid sex on campus?
and freshmen girls seem to be the target of sex when they first get there, should I just avoid trying to get to know a person in the hopes of a relationship, which could lead to sex? Also, should i avoid sex altogether?
- Neichelle-
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