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this is a serious question...i'm serious! i jsut want to know what yall think...
okay, is it safe to assume that MOST "sexually liberated" chicks have either had some kind of abuse early in thier childhood, or grew up without a father figure in thier life?
i dunno i assume this because this is usually the case whenever i listen to love/relationship programs such as loveline and they get a female caller who admidts to having numerous sex partners, usuallly doctor (i think his name is phil or steve) asks them a few questions about thier childhood, and i'd geustimate about 88% of the time, there was some abuse...and the other 22% of the time, there was a father figure lacking...
and its even worst whenever i listen to like howard stern or any goofy-type show for dummies that like interviews pornos stars...every last interview i've heard with a porn star was abused as a child! jenna jameson, asia canberra...ect ect...all of them! it's sad how that type of trauma can wreck someone's life...the things they let men do to them...i don't need to go into detail, but it's kidna sad wacthing these chicks in these videos knowing that the only reason they're there is because some assclown f3cked ther lives up when they were innocent...i mean seriously, fellas...that's why i just had to stop buying those things...you're just watching chicks who had been molested as kids...that's why they let them do that to them...isn't that sad? that's somebody's daughter...
and it's like that in real life too...well at least for me...all of my female friends that i know who are involved sexually with numorous people were either abused as a child, or didn't have a father figure...and it's sad and stunning the number i chicks that i knew who had been abused...it's very sad...i had know idea how common it was until i started hanging out with females...it seems to me that alot of them have stories to tell...
so anyways, i guess what i've learned from this is that i have to be in my future daughter's life...to protect her from harm and to be there for her when she needs her dad...the reason why our women today are so screwed up is because of us, fellas...and this ain't no liberal sour dough ass who watches lifetime and is always siding with women...most of it is OUR damyum fault...
I agree. I feel im sexually liberated, but I think that phrase carries different definitions. When I apply it for myself Im just very open about my sexuality and not ashamed of what I do or have done for that matter. I havent had a ridiculous amount of partners, im ALWAYS safe, and Im definitely not a ho. And ur assumption of either no father figure or sexual abuse doesnt apply to me. My father always been in my life. I was never abused. I grew up in church all my life and my mother was married when she lost her virginity...thats just not the path I took even tho I was raised to stay a virgin til marriage. If I could go back and change some things I would still be a virgin, but whats done is done now. I understand your point of saying that you believe alotta reasons for promiscuity is because of the lack of a father in the home and abuse, but that simply and honestly just doesnt apply to everyone.
I agree. I feel im sexually liberated, but I think that phrase carries different definitions. When I apply it for myself Im just very open about my sexuality and not ashamed of what I do or have done for that matter. I havent had a ridiculous amount of partners, im ALWAYS safe, and Im definitely not a ho. And ur assumption of either no father figure or sexual abuse doesnt apply to me. My father always been in my life. I was never abused. I grew up in church all my life and my mother was married when she lost her virginity...thats just not the path I took even tho I was raised to stay a virgin til marriage. If I could go back and change some things I would still be a virgin, but whats done is done now. I understand your point of saying that you believe alotta reasons for promiscuity is because of the lack of a father in the home and abuse, but that simply and honestly just doesnt apply to everyone.
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